so me and this guy have been together for a month, the first few weeks we spent nearly everyday together, and talked on phone and text everyday.
we'll he had something to do which meant he couldn't see me for a while, which I knew about before we got together. So he starts doing this thing, but not only are we not seeing each other he stops talking to me on the phone and texting.
I get sick of this after a week, and tell his brother to tell him I want to call it off because of his behaviour.(I had to get his brother to tell him as he was ignoring me, and his phone screen had broke a couple days before I got fed up after a rare time of me and him talking for a while - In which he was acting his normal self- so I couldn't text him). Well the same day his brother tells him we all go out drinking, he told his brother he was coming out, even though he hadn't been out all week, and only said it after the break up.
So we're all out, he ignores me, flirts with another girl, I have words with him and he stops flirting and doesn't look at any other girl, afta ignoring me for an hourish he starts actin normal wit me and we go back to his to talk and I sleep there.
I explained to him why I felt I had to break it off with him, we decided we're still going to be together and he has been making an effort to contact me and talk to me since this (2 days ago).
I have a few things that make me think maybe he was with someone else in this week he was ignoring me.
1. He once answered, put the phone down after hearing me speak and then dint answer when I tried to call again.
2. A few hours after his brother told him I wanted to break-it off, he gets a call which my cousin and his brother overhear, in which he says 'babe'. he calls me this, so my cousin asked if it was me and he said, no, its [insert names] girl. where as far as I knew, this person din't have a girl, could of got one but :/
3. We were talkin online, and I was talking about how as we're back togetha he best not go see no girls that he has on the side now (we have a joke wer I say I have a guy on the side and he has a girl), well he only answered after a couple mins, saying 'no1' as in no1 is on his list. so I asked sure, and he said 'yeh sure' when I pointed out he took his time to answer he just said 'lol'. so when I said 'bet you've been with another girl already' he said 'woteva' straight away, which I know he says when he gets annoyed, normally as its not true, but a couple mins later he says he has to go, as he' was going to his mates (He told me he was seeing his mate at the start of the convo)
It felt like he was rushing off the conversation and trying to avoid it. so I just said 'okay remember your mine' and he replied 'i will x' straight back.
am I reading to much into this? he said he would never cheat, has never done and even offer me his phone to call his ex or says if we see her I can talk to her and ask if he'd cheat as she knows he would never cheat.
Honey, I'm sorry to tell you this, but he is probably, or possibly "cheating" on you. =( Everything you wrote was every sign of cheating. Such as flirting with another girl. Its not my discision to break up with him though. (Not that I want you two to break up at all!) But I just think you'd be happier with another man who will love you. And Only you! =) I wish you so much luck with your boyfriend! <3 I hope you both work out your troubles! :D
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