So I've been with this lad for over a month. We're were2getha everyday, talked and texted everyday. Soon as we met we clicked and got together a few days after. You know, those types of people who you don't even start to build a friendship with as you just feel like you've known them for years and you match so perfectly?
In texts I often got 'miss you baby', 'why you gotta live so far away' - I live about 20miles away and 'I can't get you out of my head, what you done 2 me baby' also 'Ur the only 1 4 me, the onli 1 I want'. 'Call me because I jus wan2 hear ur voice'.
After a month in, this project that he's doing with his mate starts to go wrong, because its a fairly major and will have a big impact on their lives he got really stressed out and all of a sudden forgot about me and spent all his time sorting this out.
I didn't/don't have a problem with this, the only thing I have a problem is he stopped talking, texting or seeing me. He'd ignore my texts and calls. so I eventually stopped.
This projects near the end so they have to spen their time working on it., It's finishing in around 3weeks. So far in the past 2 weeks, I've seen him 3 times. I've spoke 2 him sometimes on msn but not for long and sometimes he will sign out when I say hey.
Last friday I got sick of being ignored for his project and decided to end it, and on sat he found out from his bro, as he wasn't answering my calls and his phone screen had broken so couldn't get texts(I've seen it). Well he got really defensive and was saying 'f'k her, I'm not chasing f'k her'. But he came out in the evening and, ignored me at the start but came over all talking towards the end and begged me to stay at his, where we spoke and I explained why I felt I had to end it.
Well he then spoke 2 me loads, up until wednesday. On sun, we were meant to talk when I fin work and he'd left his phone at his mates so he got on msn and talked to me, on mon, he managed to text, and on tues I got a text from his mate telling me to go online as he was online. Well, he wasn't going to come out that day but he came out, and we talked again, and I told him I liked that he was talking again. On sunday, we spoke about us and, we are together, just on hold he said 'It will all be okay when this has done'.
Well since coming out on tuesday, he hasn't spoke to me again. He's suposed to be out on sat (we all go out round town every week, and he told me he was going to) but now he's told my cousin he's not. he also told his mate 'f'k off' (to me) when I asked his mate to c if he would call me as he was yet again ignoring my calls.
He's told me he 'loves me to bits' many times, and said even though its not love love he can feel it gettin there and it scares him so much as he doesn't want to get hurt (he did by his ex). he's told me he doesn't want to get to close to me for this reason. which isn't fair on me, as he's holding onto his past.
you know there's a saying you got to know when to hold them know when to fold them know when to walk away know when to run. sweetie its time to walk away and find you a real man.
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