So there's this kid that I really have a crush on for quite a while now. He doesn't show an interest in me, he always says he's busy, except for this one time we were in his house laying on the bed and he put my head on his chest and started playing with my hair... I show him I like him but he keeps shutting me down... for instance I wrote him a text saying I hate you but I love you, what did you do to me? And he replied "all jokes aside, you're crazy, leave me alone" just like that. Now I know I'm not crazy but was he serious and how do I make him like me and not think I'm crazy?
I agree with Marisa. You can't force anyone to like you. He just doesn't like you for his own reasons... forget about him and find someone who appreciates you.
Yeah, he's serious and you cannot MAKE someone like you. He probably knows you are trying to which is why he's asking you to leave him alone. Use that energy to find someone that deserves your affection...move on from this guy.
There is a technique called push-me/pull-me that will create emotional dependency. It creates confusion and weakness. It is not love. Real love is supportive and makes you stronger. Please move on from this guy. Cut it off and regain your strength. - 9 months ago
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When: 9 months ago
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