so, my dad was dropping me off at school, and we were in the school store. at the register, there was this girl that looked masculine. as we left, my dad made a comment about it and I simply stated that she was probably transgendered. with that my dad said "wow, I hope I didn't have too many impure thoughts about her", or something along those lines. now, this question has nothing to do with the transgendered girl, because it's her choice and stuff, it's more based on my dads statement. was it really odd for him to say that? becuase, I now he's human and everything.it was just really awkward and I did not know how to respond and I felt uncomfortable. and then I felt bad for my mom, should I be concerned? cause, this is the second/third time he's made a statement about younger girls that were my age, maybe that's why I was uncomfortable?. or was it just one of these moments where I realized that my dad is just a human guy and it just freaked me out? on top of that, it made me doubt marriage. I mean, I know it's okay to comment people about how they look, but my dads comments just make doubt about marriage. I know this is kinda overly worried about it (I think), its just really been bothering me. any advice would be great.
i have a step dad, that's kind of like that, he's even done it to me myself. it is a little creepy and uncomfortable. I don't know if you should be overly worried or concerned. we all have thoughts, and a lot of time we over exagerate. my step dad has said the same things your dad has said and I've been worried about rape, cheating, etc. none of the above have happened. and rit now, my parents are very in love. theyve actually been getting stronger. I don't think you should worry 2 much. just be a little bit caucious. but don't overwhelm yourself! I'm here if you ever need 2 talk. :)
(Age:18 to 24)
When: A month ago
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