so in the past week I have been talking to this new guy at my school we would text and sometimes get really flirty with each other. I thought we were going somewhere but everything started when one day he ate lunch with me and some friends and then the next day I couldn't go to lunch but I told him to go without me well he did and he connected with one of my friends and yesterday he asked her out and when I texted him to see what was up he was with her and just asked her and didn't even tell me he even texted me all night and didn't even mention it! then today before class we were all standing outside hanging out and stuff and neither he or she told me anything when he finally left to go to his class my friend told me and admitted that she was kinda scared to tell me. which kinda made me think WTF would I be mad? and to make things worse when I was sitting her to her in class he kept texting me (he only texted her once) and didn't even mention anything about them dating ( he didn't know I knew) until I mentioned and he confessed. I just wanna know what his deal is and Why everyone was afraid to tell me? I mean I'm extremely happy my friend found someone!
I guess you need to talk to your gal friend and tell her that you're not mad at her but it would nice if someone inform you about the situation. Tell her that you don't like to be the last one to know and since you're friend she should come to you first. Tell her that you're happy with her and tell the guy to stop texting you from now on because he made his choice and you're happy for them. I think he is guilty and knew that he has hurt you by misleading you that this relationship was going somewhere. He is not going away anytime soon either.so you have make your choice whether to remain his friend or just walk from this dilemma.