So I have this good friend and she started seeing a new guy. I consider them to be dating because they kiss, he has slept over and he is here a lot. Well it turns out that he is divorced, and has been divorced for only 6 months, and he has 4 children(was married for 10 years). Well his ex-wife heard about the relationship and at first was upset, but now she wants to totally be "friends" with my friend. I mean the ex-wife was texting my friend a lot. Just yesterday my friend met up with her. I don't know how that went. The ex-wife says "Hanging out with you I will get to see my ex husband more." My friend is really cool with that. Suspicious to me. I don't want her to get hurt. Any advice?
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ladygator81
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Some couples are like that, where if the marriage ended on reasonable terms, they stay friends. My parents are like that, they are separated but my mother talks with the woman that my father is seeing. But I wouldn't say they are best friends. I would speak to your friend about it and recommend keeping her distance from the ex-wife. Also, does the ex-husband know what his wife is doing? If you think it is creepy, tell him, he can probably get her to stop talking to your friend.