Why don't people respect my relationship?

If you know in your heart that he is not cheating and you can really trust him that much then keep going on what you feel. "Friends" act this way due to many reasons one because they might be jealous if he is as wonderful as you say. They have reason to be misery loves company! If they are down and out about themselves then why not take your happiness away too? They are not your friends they are the ones who love to pretend because they want what you have! Another reason is because they love drama and if there is not enough going on in there lives to keep them satisfied they may feel the need to stir up yours just to watch and see what you do... Again NOT your friends they could even want your boyfriend for themselves and think if they get you to believe them you will break up with him and he will be on the market for them to go after! These people are the ones you really have to look out for so you can be able to distinguish who is who and what a real friend really is. If they are bringing you down and this is ongoing get them out of your everyday life for awhile so that you are not constantly having to deal with the negativity and drama. If you really care about this guy and he means this much to you then go on your own feelings about him a relationship is two people and only they know what truly goes on between each other. I know it sounds messed up for them to be like that but some people just can not stand to see others get what they feel they deserve more. Do what your heart tells you and good luck!

You know what I think, forget what your freinds say, who's b/f is this? Their's?

Exactly! So stop worrying about what ur parents say, what your freinds say, he's yours, you wanted him he wants you, that's whats imporant here.

I see so many people these days so concerned with what others think about their realationships and it bothers me. Your right he's probably not cheating on you. ALthough your freinds want you to think that so 1. you break up w/him 2. so you can date someone closer.

My questions to your freinds would be this, "So when did you figure out was best for me?"

See what I'm getting at? I hope you do. This is a really horrible thing that people do, especially to girls, especially girl's that are freinds of another girl. It is childish if you ask me. I personaly wouldn't associate with people who treated me that way. Their aren't worth your time, you know what i'd do if I were you?

Call that b/f of urs and tell him how much he means to you.

I gaurentee he wants to hear it. Also, letting him know this is going on might not be a bad idea he needs to know as well. That way if he's around you and these girls are around he can tread lightly. If he makes a better impression on them maybe they'll stop this nonsense. Although Once again I personally don't think i'd waste my time with someone such as the girls giving you trouble. They just aren't worth it. YOU HAVE ALOT BIGGER AND BETTER THINGS TO DO AND WORRY ABOUT ;).



AlPiNe~

Maybe they want him for themselves or they know something you don't know.

It really depends on what kind of friends they are. To me, if they aren't supporting you, then they aren't true friends. But then again, there's always the possibility that you're so blinded by love that you might actually be wrong about him. Ask you friends why they think he's cheating. Do they have proof? Ask them for proof, and if they don't have any, drop them and tell them to go spread their stupidity somewhere else.

You're 15 Hun...do you even know what love is? Do you think that maybe your friends are looking out for you and they want the very best for you...Just maybe it's not about making you feel bad or sending mean messages but maybe it's about protecting you from whats out there...they don't know him and maybe they think you're switching them for him. Try talking to your friends. If they're really your friends they will listen...