okay so there's this guy who I dated over the summer. I really like him. he moved away for the year to play soccer but he'll be back during the summer time and then he will be going to college next year. he travels all the time with his team so I have no doubt he's hooking up with random girls but he still texts me from time to time to see how I'm doing. I want to make him care about me the way I care about him. I want him to see me as the perfect girl who is there for him and that he wants to come home to. how do I do this? I just can't stop thinking about him.
there's more than one way to be together these days: you've got texting, you can do online chat too (if you're both awake at the same time) , and you can email.
now's the time to get inside each other's heads, so that when he comes back you've already been chatting and having fun and can just go about doing it in person.
Lost-Girl's advice is good: play it cool and take the opportunity to get to know each other a bit more.
You really can't make him do this and the more you push for it, the more he will push you away. So here is what you can do. Okay, so we know he likes you because he texts you.he thinks you're a cool girl. Now what you can do is follow his lead. Do what he does.if he texts you you 'hey what's going on?' you text back 'not much.just getting ready to go out' even if you're not going anywhere. This will drive him nuts! It's fun! If he asks 'where are you going?' you answer "oh just to (name somewhere fun). If you were here I would invite you'. This will make him feel special.he'll like the fact that you're thinking about him. If you say something like 'I'm thinking of you', this will make him not want to answer.to deep for him! Once in a while send him a 'what are you wearing?' type of fun comment, just so he doesn't think of you as a 'buddy' type of friend. The best you can do is listen when he talks (don't intrupt too much), be grumpy when he's grumpy, be happy when he's happy.copy what he does. If you push for something he can't do (because he's moved away), it will just get any guy (or girl in the same situation) fell frustrated and not want to deal with it. Don't think about what he might be doing with other girls.just focus on how you can hold on to him until he moves back. I know you're thinking about him all the time.but for now take it easy, have fun and see where it goes. THink of it this way.make him think about you.the fun stuff you're doing, the good times you're having, but at the same time care about him as a friend. Don't push.they will run! Hope this helps! Message me if you need more! Good luck! I hope it works out :)
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