If it's dishonesty, and fooling around with your emotions, not taking you seriously, and not respecting you, then you need to get rid of the useless git. Kick him to the curb. He doesn't respect you now, and he never will. Sorry about guys like that.
If he seems like a flirt don't take everything seriously, because sometimes they tell you they like you just to see how you will react but if you take it seriously, you take your hopes up and get hurt. mostly, try to play with him as well, just in a friendly manner, don't let his sweet talk get to you.
If your not into the games leave him he could do it to keep things interesting depending on how long you have been together but still games are not something you want to make a habit in a relationship of any kind even if they are petty that could just cause unnecessary drama so if you want them to stop play harder then when he gets curious as to why let him know nobody likes getting their emotions played with and this is what he has been putting you through if your not up for all that then let him know now and leave it at that.
Cause if your not that serious anyway doesn't this kinda tell you what a future with him will be like?
witchy-1
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
If you are up for it, you play him at his own game and keep him on his toes!!
If it's not your thing, you just refuse to participate with it and move on. Find someone else.
Playing games can really mess with your head and emotions until you are so strung out you don't have a clue what's going on. They can also be really hurtful and you never know where you stand - it can affect your confidence.
If someone really likes you, there should be no need to play games.
If he's not serious and is playing the field, he maybe gets off on this kind of thing. If you think you can handle it, give as good as you get - otherwise get out before you get hurt.
Whether it is a girl's night out or a Friday night date with our hubby, the "getting ready" clock starts ticking the minute we get home from work. Wax, manicure, pedicure, teeth whitening gel stuff,...
Now I'm sure you all or at least most of you have at one point or another heard or said those fateful words "lets take a break" while you were in a exclusive relationship with someone. For whatever...
I've done the same thing before to my man. What helped me out is trying to become more independent, and trying to do things that boost my self esteem. Obviously she gets that way after every fight...
Oh that's bad...If you do that the boyfriend will probably tell his girlfriend and then you'll have a problem on your hands and you'll probably lose that friend.