Big girls?

Well guys that feel that way are just ridiculous. You can't pass someone off completely for there size, big or small. I'm not a skinny girl either and I have found many guys that have been attracted to me. These guys think I am beautiful because I have a great spirit and they think there's nothing wrong with a little cushin for the pushin. It really depends on the guy. The few guys that have passed me off because I'm not a size 6 I have come to find they are complete losers and aren't worth my time.

Because its not really attractive, nobody likes looking at rolls of fat... I don't mind big girls but chubby aint cool. Big as in 6,1 150 pounds athletic.

Some guys are attracted to chubby girls. A lot of the time the bigger girls have a much better personality than skinny girls. At the same time, a lot of chubby girls are also much more insecure, which is a big turnoff for guys.

I think all girls have some good physical attributes; few are downright unattractive. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. Size is not that big a deal if the girl takes the time to try to look nice. Thats what its all about:; making yourself attractive, and looking good. I've dated big girls before, who are some of the nicest, prettiest girls I've ever met.

JeVousAime is right. It's not necessarily a problem that she's big, but if she's not confident because of it, THAT can be a problem. So just be happy with yourself and the rest will come naturally.

On the other hand, some guys are just that shallow. They're doing you a favor. Avoid them.

Okay at my school thicker is better. And I mean seriously if a girl is thick and has a little more boobs or a bigger butt guys are all over her.

Big size women are beautiful in their own way and for any size woman its the way you carrying yourself and your appearance in the public eye. To each is own what you like I prefer the thick man.

Its not size that makes a girl unattractive it is her attitude.... if you have the confidence then size does not mean anything.... to some SHALLOW guys who do not look for personalities or not so shallow they just prefer small girls it could just be that a preference. it may mean a girl does not take care of herself or care about her self if they let themselves go to a certain extent. yet that all leads back to CONFIDENCE!

If you have a wonderful attitude and love your self it shows if your well kept and take care of yourself it shows. alot of guys actually prefer girls with curves as to skinny girls who have nothing or look to fragile to touch. it does not matter really you just have to love your body and others will love it too do not let the stereo type scare you or influence how you feel about you.

I've asked...and from several, it isn't so much that you're bigger, but rather that your parts are in proportion. And if we're just talking about the physical aspects of a woman, guys really don't ask much else other than you try to look nice. I've talked to so many women who think, "Why do I have to take time out of my day to look nice for my partner if I don't want to! He should love me for who I am, not what I look like!"

While the second part of this statement is true, as a whole it is ridiculous. Would you go for a guy if he didn't take time to smell nice, buy decent clothes, etc? I wouldn't. The "smell nice" standard is a must, right under nice teeth.

So, in short, just rock your own look! Everyone is beautiful if they take the time to focus on what makes them beautiful. And if you feel beautiful, it will show, and guys love confidence.

If they are quite over weight, it doesn't give the impression that they take care of themselves, it's not healthy. Through evolution, we have become attracted to healthy people, because we have been taught and are biologically prepared for survival, we remember the ides of "survival of the fittest" by Darwin. And perhaps those people who do find bigger girls attractive, they may not end up in a committed relationship with them because we as humans tend to have committed relationships with people at the same attractiveness level.

I've learned from my guy friends (and I've quizzed them on this a lot!) that it doesn't really bother them how big the girl is. They say that it's how they act and how cool they seem.

I mean, if you think about it, you've probably fancied some right horrible guys in your life! (I know I have anyway....) and guys feel just the same way.

Obviously you get some complete LOSERS who only go for the girls who are size 6 - but that's just them - they're all different, and different things attract different people.

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