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How come girls are attracted to guys who have girlfriends?

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piano (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I always notice that girls seem to be more interested in a guy when they see him with a girl, especially with a girlfriend, I don't get that. What is so appealing?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
You know, you attract to the guy who already has a girlfriend, first reason, you are envy or jealous unconsciously. When a guy has a girlfriend, it is obviously we can see the appealing of the guy's traits and behaviour, isn't it? , that is the second reason. The next reason is, you want that kind of attention from a guy, you want to be love and affect. But, don't mislead, what you feel is normal, every girl feels the same, I feels it too. Control you self. Convince your self that you just interest by the relationship. It is just temporary. You just confuse on what you feel right now. Be wise.
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baylee21 (Age:Under 18)      When: 6 months ago
Okay. I agree with Anonymous User in the girls. Yeah. It does make them more desirable. Also, it doesn't really matter to a girl if you have a girlfriend or not. If they like you, they like you! I do this ALL the time. And most of us girls just think that as soon as you're over her, you'll come to us. Yeah, in our heads we know that will most likely never happen, but your hearts are just telling us that. I know some guys that re the same way. Have you ever done that. If you have, I'm sure you know what I mean!
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
Because we realize that there is less chance of him being a psycho if someone's already with him.

LOL. Jk, I have no idea. I do this all the time and still haven't figured it out yet.
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pocahontas (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
That's why.
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
I think it's because they know they can't have him which makes him more desirable.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
Maybe they can see them as more of "boyfriend material"? [=[=
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tailgate (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
First of all, you tend to clean up a bit when you're dating someone and she's taking care of you. Second, you being with someone is like proof that you are worth being with. You are tried, tested and true!
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
I find it very offensive that girls would like guys who are already engaged with someone else - It shows a lot of disrespect and immaturity towards for their relationship and tend to lead into cheating or trying to steal the guy from the other girl.

Why steal someone else's ice cream when you can get one for free or at least pay for it with well earned cash? That is the most reasonable choice, the other would go to jail. Single means available, Taken means not available - why twist it the other way around?

I know why. It is that girls want guys for themselves to help with their own self worth not because they actually like them or really care, but only to bring their own comfort.
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Timeus (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Women really like to compete, but they won't admit to it. If a girl has a good man and really enjoys being with him, then other women want to know what's keeping this girl wrapped around the man she's with. A guy is more desirable when he's with another woman because he doesn't seem needy or desperate to get a girlfriend.
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The-Pixel-Ninja (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Maybe it's the "Want what we can't have" syndrome, which is my explanation for bi girls being so hot, because guys want lesbians because they can't have them, But Bi girls, Bi girls are lesbians they can have.

It also could be the fact he is clearly "Desirable" which would from the standpoint of evolution means he's a prime mate. Heh, primate. Get it? :3 (that actually wasn't intended, but I saw it and felt I had to whore it our for all it's cheesy glory)
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kaykay (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
Because alot of women are whore sluts who need to find but can't find there own men.
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The-Pixel-Ninja Sounds like you're not having much luck with the ladies. :[ - 6 months ago
blufrenzy93 Not necessarily...
i will admit that I do sometimes get attracted to guys that are taken
but I know that I can't have them
and I respect that fact
- A month ago
 
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