I have a new job, the very first person I met at my new job was a very attractive lady who opened the front door to me so I could meet my interviewer.
I landed the job fortunately and she continued to be very friendly (big smile and saying hello good morning, glad you got he job etc.)
Fast forward a few months I still say hello o her and she started looking down when I say hello o her and almost in a sad way saying hello back.
fast forward a few months later, no hellos from her, when I say good morning to her she either just stares at me or gives me a quick hello and speeds by me.
I am not crushing on her, she is cute though. But I wonder why she is less friendly with me as time went on. We never talked so it isn't like I did something negative towards her. I always remained polite towards her and everyone else at my new job. But she pulled back for some reason while everyone else is interested in being friendly towards me.
She is A super friendly person and always smiling, but her smile drops when she notices me looking at her.
What "could be" behind this.
Anyone have a similar story?
Update: I happened to think she is very attractive but I have not put out any "vibes" or flirted in anyway. I just wanted to maintain the friendliness.
Actualy by pulling back she has actually drawn my attention.
More than a year ago
She is probably either in a relationship with someone or just worried about office gossip. The other people no doubt noticed her smiling at you and rumors started. You know what a problem that can be at work. It could even get her fired as you know, as well as you too if anything ever happened between you.
She may just be signaling you that there can't be any office romance. That may mean that she wants a secret relationship. You might want to just ask her if she wants to meet say an hour after work at someplace far enough away that it would be unlikely anyone at work would see you.
If she says not or doesn't respond, drop it immediately since you could easiy be accused of harassment if you persist. One such invitation wouldn't probably get you in trouble. But make sure no one else at work overhears.
Sounds like she has a crush on you and is angry you never asked her out or seem interested in her past "hello".
Her designed to get your attention behavior is working because you are now wondering about her and if you were interested in her you would've stopped and ask her about it, breaking the ice.
Why does it bother you so much that she isn't jumping up to become your next best friend?
Sounds like it is better for your career to steer clear.
Well it seems to me she might have been interested in you for a period of time (and didn't want to tell you). And she was probably waiting for you to show some interest in her. And the fact that you weren't giving any "vibes" or flirting with her or making an effort to talk with her probably caused her to pull back. A female will like a guy for a while, but if he doesn't 'seem' to feel the same way she'll do one of the three things: 1. get sad 2. get angry 3. or move on
My advice to you is: now that she's drawn your attention, pay her some attention and maybe try to start a conversation with her. Instead of just waving or saying "hello"; stop at the desk and ask her about her day. Chances are, if I'm right about her being interested in you, she probably still is or she may be in the process of not being interested (moving on). Just try some small talk and work your way to a full conversation. If she's as nice as you say she is, she'll answer. I hope it works out for you :D
maybe she likes you, but you remind her of an ex boyfriend or something. my friend went through that with a few boys. or maybe she doesn't like you, and just acts like that because she doesn't know the correct way to just be friends without leading you on
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