Why am I still single, despite all qualities guys list about me?

Could be that your such a good friend guys don't want to loose you. We all know what happens to friendships when we date our friends for a few weeks and the relationship fails. The friendship usualy goes with it. Also don't misperceive guys not asking you out as guys not liking you. When girls ask me how to get a guy to stop hitting on them the advice I give is to talk about down to earth topics like sports or down a few beers. Basicly acting like one of the guys. This doesn't get them to stop liking girls in fact it can even be a turn on. But creates a subliminal message. Don't hit on me know I'm in normal friend mode. So if your talking to guys the sameway girls talk to guys to get them to stop hitting on them that could be the problem. Think about it the singer pink is hot and a lot of guys like her. But I have had many guys tell me that they would never dare asking pink out. Her songs are so ( I'm not in the hit on mood) like that song I'm gona start a fight that guys get a message don't flirt with pink. What happens is we are trying to respect the fact that you are easy to talk to and are talking about how you were having a few beers yesterday. We love that don't change. But a guy won't ask you out because he will feel he is breaking an unspoken code. Don't ask out a girl when she is talking about getting her oil changed getting cut in line or downing a few beers at the football game. Its considerd rude to ask you out then. So its not that guys don't like you its that we don't want to break that she's talking about her moter cycle so I can't ask her out code. Don't change this part of your personality because guiys like that about you. But every now and then smile and talk about what you like about the guy. Say your realy a great person or I feel safe around you. You actualy are creating tons of hearts that like your personality but your putting a muzzle on there mouth. Do the down to earth stuff and then take the muzzle off by a little flirting and compliments. This way you create the hearts that like you don't change that. But you flirt so they can feel at ease hitting on you. You got the first half right now just do the second half.

Here's what I feel could be happening. Not to sound like a male chauvinist but what the other uncool chicks have mastered is follows:
Be a maid in the house, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in bed.
Often you may be comparing or rating yourself too highly in comparison to others. Nothing wrong with that when you are competing or using these skills in a board room but when it comes to relationship all these qualities, tactics and skills should be left at the door. Try to understand and connect with someone on a personal level rather than an adversary and you will be surprised to see the outcome and results and find someone with whom you can connect and bond resulting in a long lasting relationship.
One other factor since you indicated great skills in bed may be you may have lost interest having gone thru tryst in this arena and may have lost interest in men.
I have tried to put in my two cents. Hope this may be of some help. Regards

too old maybe? I know some hot girls but they jus do stupid shit which makes me think of them as a guy RIGHT when I'm starting to think damn those tits are nice

They probably feel like they may not be good enough for you

Ok you maybe super hot but here's the deal when a guy says your a guy's gal that typically means you like one of the guys, some guys like this but most don't , basically if you act like one of the guys then your going to be seen as pretty much just a friend to them, I have a few friends that yeah there attractive and I would say they're cool chicks, but I don' t want to date them, men really want a girl you know like a girly girl, one that loves to shop, has more friends that a female then male, cause in my eyes a girl like that is dating material and not the ones who have tons of guy friends and know more about sports than most guys.

Good one. I hope this will help. There is (and don't take this the wrong way) either something wrong with them or there is something wrong with you. Or maybe you haven't meet the right one yet. Could it be how you meet them or where. If all that is true about you than believe in yourself.

I think it's because of all the good qualities they say you do have. But what would I think if I wanted to date a girl, or go out with one?
More guy friends than girl friends: While it is essential to have both girl and guys friends, I believe having as many guy friends is not a good sign. You can call me old-fashioned, or jealous
Really cool chick: That's exactly what I tell my girl friends that I hang out with... that they are cool.. the reasons may vary but from what I've seen mostly, that means she is NOT girlfriend material.
Guy's gal: Hmm, where do I begin...

For the qualities I listed above, you might be an exception from the norm but even then, since you are a cool chick, a guy's gal, and have more guy friends than girl friends, most guys' perception would be that you are a wild one. You probably should somehow change that image.

That's a hard one.
The only thing I can say for that is, maybe no one has those feelings for you at the moment.
Sorry =( couldn't think of that one.

Get men to start thinking of you as more of a woman they want to get. Be a little mysterious, let them see not only are you a friend or someone to sleep with but that your a great lover. That you deserve and can give a good relationship. Men don't want to be in love with one of the guys or better yet marry them if they're straight. Start asking some of your guy friends to help you become more dateable, then loveable, and marriage material. Listen your guy friend can def. tell you what you have been doing that makes you get stuck in this situation. Talk to one of them who you trust and who ha great understanding/advising skills. Any of them can say this is why I wouldn't (blank) you though. I hope everything has worked out/turned around or soon will.

You just haven't found the right guy yet. Not everyone finds their truelove as easily as they show in the movies. love takes time and sometimes even luck, if you know what I mean. Luck as in being somewhere at the right time and that special someone coming into your life. You're just going to have to be patient. It'll happen for you. Just don't let things get you down right now. Enjoy life and out of the blue you're perfect guy will find you. =)