What to do next?

"How to have Success with Women"- by Ron Louis and David Copeland.

"YOU SEEM TOO AVAILABLE- Like everybody else, women like things that are rare and hard to get ahold of. If you ask a woman out and say, "Oh, anytime is good for me," it makes you sound like an unemployed bum with no social life. "(p. 168)

I actually think this is your problem. you should look for this book.

i don't know maybe I'm the weird one but I would probably react the same way.
about the phone I'm just not a phone person, on chat you can think before typing and stuff.but on the phone you could say something wrong

as for the drinks I'm just not into that, especially as it's a first time thing, seems intimidating
you should try something more 'friendly' like going to the arcade or something or to play tennis.

lol I just realised this question is 7 months old.but ye I searched up keywords looking for a same problem pretty much.

well hope ure problem worked out.

Ummm... Personally, I don't think she's interested. If she were, she would want your phone number and she would want to get a drink with you. Maybe she is hectic with exams and such, but maybe she just doesn't kow you well enough to want to do anything together. Maybe she's going out with someone. You should ask her this. Don't be afraid, just ask her straight up. And what to do next if she's not dating? Well, it's best if you leave her alone for a while. Maybe after one week start talking to her again and ask her when she is free. If she tells you Saturday, then that is when you should plan something. It's best to ask when she's free, so that you know that she can't have an excuse like, "I'm busy". If she still makes up excuses, give up. You are 23 and there are many other girls. Walk around in the mall and start talking to someone and see if you are interested. Just don't chase this one girl that is not into you.

Well I hate to put ya down like this but it sounds like she is not that interested... If she is let this one come to you anyways as far as a girl is concerned get out more and hang with people and your sure to get another crush fairly soon... when that happens you just have to be confident about who you are and talk just like you did to this one.... I understand why you may feel you were doing something wrong seeing her response but you were not that was just how she felt- get to know some girls and ask them like you did her without seeming to desperate or to available and be yourself but again and most important have WAY MORE CONFIDENCE in yourself saying your not so cool handsome etc etc proves you do not have much of that at all and that is unattractive It makes it harder because you do not have much experience but that will come the more you get out there and try you can do it just tell yourself over and over again that it is no big deal and you will have it in no time!

Sorry man, Sounds like you're screwed, or more importantly you're not gonna get screwed. My advice is just keep moving on, It's something I've always had to do, I hate it, but I just had to. that's how life went. And if you've seen kung-fu hustle(which is sounds like you have) you'd know that the Buddha's palm is very powerful when used by the right person. Personally, i'd take the punch in the face over the buhhda's palm.