Would this cause a problem?

I would be okay with it as long as the guy was upfront and honest about it.

I wouldn't mind. I guess if he has to, its fine. but if our relationship fails, ( and I know he is helping this site) in the back of my mind I can't help but think about weather or not its because of his new job.
and I can see why guys would want to hide this work from a girl but its best not too.

Trust and Honesty =) most important

I think that's great that you care enough about your girlfriend and that you're doing your best to make your relationship as good as possible. TWO THUMBS UP!


About the site.I admit that I would be somewhat bothered if my boyfriend did something like that.although I don't know if that holds true for every girl. My boyfriend had several online female friends at one time, and even though I knew about all of them because he doesn't keep secrets from me, it still made me feel a bit funny (as hard as I tried to brush it aside) and a bit jealous since some of them were either more attractive than I am or scantily dressed.I don't think it was technically cheating, so I felt angry with myself for being bothered by it. I refused to bring it up in any conversations because of this. If he had asked me, I probably would've fibbed and said it didn't bother me because I didn't want to seem needy and clingy.HORRORS! lol Thankfully, my boyfriend either sensed that I didn't like it, or just decided for some reason to stop. I was SO THANKFUL that he did it of his own initiative, and not because I made him. That meant the WORLD to me.

So if you want to do something that will mean the WORLD to your girlfriend, tell her that you've handed the site over to other hands. It sounds like a good idea, so don't dump it completely. She will feel like a PRINCESS.

But if you don't feel ready to do that, then just keep doing what you're doing.it probably won't destroy your relationship, but it won't help either.

Do what you think is best, and good luck either way! If you have any other questions just comment on this post. Thanks.

~Katie~

I think this is something that you should probably get out in the open right away. If you're involved in the operation of a website that objectifies women -- which yours does, even though it may not be porn -- then the woman you're trying to date may be offended by that. For some ladies, that's a deal breaker, so you need to forthright and honest about this, preferably on the second or third date. Give the lady some time to see how well you can treat her, but you really do need to disclose this sooner than later.

If it isn't porn I don't think it matters. And I think most girl friends ( at least mine) knows I still look at porn. But that might just be because we haven't had sex yet. If it is about business I don't think it matters, just tell her that. Besides I don't think she would mind you earning money, you can buy her more stuff!