Is my fiance still interested?

Surprise him with something you either haven't done in a long time or never have done it... no matter how sleepy, tired, uninterested I am, if a girl starts tickling my ears and neck I always get turned on... find his soft spot...

You try his method and don't make a move towards him, he will come back to you.

Guys don't like too much attention. It may be because of too much asking rather than your looks. If he is distant, you can stay distant for a while too, that will make him wonder. Make him ask you and also a couple times you say no, ignore him. It works for almost every guy. We like what we can't have.

I have had fall out in the past because my girlfriend at the time didn't show any effort on losing the weight she gained since we had met. It is not how she looked but how she cared for herself. After all, I was attracted to her playfulness and how she would carry herself even with the simplest clothing and no make up. It is in fact more mental than physical. You being aware of how you look but not doing anything about it is the reason.

I got dumped once when I put on a few pounds and he told me that it was the reason. It was difficult to admit at first, but when I started getting over it and ignoring him I got my confidence back and started dressing up again. Even though I hadn't lost any weight, he would try to talk to me and get me back and I never wanted to go back to him. Turns out a little attitude and a quick make over did the trick. I am not saying that you should break up but ignore him slightly while looking attractive

From what I know of guys, they are pretty straight forward. If he wasn't interested, he'd tell you. :) But you could ask him if he wants to join a gym or something and if he jumps at the chance and is like, "oh yeah, that would be so cool if you started going" then that might mean he is a little concerned about the weight gain. Are your kids with him? If not, maybe that's the reason.

10 pounds isn't enough to chase a guy away, I wouldn't think. 100, sure, but 10? Doubtful...how soon is your wedding? Maybe he's getting some chilly feet. If you're headed to wedded bliss, I'd force him to talk about it. I've never been married but I think if you can't straighten this out now, your marriage probably doesn't stand much of a chance.