OK, so this question has a lot of back ground, so bare with me I knew a guy 3 years ago and we totally flirted and danced together a lot for like 3 days.(we had dances each night at this church thing) (and definition of dance is: a slow dance that isn't so close it's awkward.just like a waltz stance.)and ya, we danced a lot and got along really well. Then I see him a few months later at another dance and he barely talks to me and we dance once. And it was awkward. A year later, it's the church thing again, and it's the second and last dance and we still haven't even talked! If we cross paths in the hallway, we both blush and look down. A few times at the dances, I see him come around to where I usually am, but I'm dancing with other guys.He's like looking around for me and all that but pretends he isn't and leaves. So I ask him to dance, and he seems surprised. Everything is good, not awkward at all. But then right after the dance, his friend is pointing me out to his brother. But I'm like wtvr. I don't talk to him for a few months and then at another dance, he doesn't even talk to me. But his friend is.I don't even know him. Now a year later, I go to the church thing again and the whole time, him and his friends are just staring at me. THE WHOLE TIME. When I try to make eye contact, he looks away. When I walk out of a room, his brother is pointing me out to him. At one point, we are coincidentally going down the same stairs at the same time. I just say "Oh, hi!" and he says "Well, hello there!" and that was it. A few months later, there's another dance, still the staring and each time I try eye contact, he's looking away. At one time, I THINK he came up behind me and said hi, but it was so fast I didn't have time to notice. And then his friend was like "You went too fast!" So I guess I was too late. And then his like 18 year old brother asks my 14 year old sister to dance and they're like beside me and another guy, and THE guy is right beside them. What is going on? What should I do? I am so confused! Anything would be great.
Update: After the first year, I sent him a nice, sweet email asking how he was doing and if he remembered me. I told him I'd be sad if he didn't, he NEVER replied. Then the year after I asked him if he got it, and He just blushed, looked away and didn't answer.
11 months ago
He really is slow if he's not answering back.He probably lost intrerst or is really shy but I don't understand why if ya hit it off.I say forget about him and let him go he ain't worth your time anymore he had a chance.
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When: 11 months ago
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