well I know it may seem weird for you.I am a really shy girl but I wanna chose the boys that I really like and get their numbers.I lost many of those boys I liked with my shyness : ( so I don t wanna repeat the same mistake again.Some boys were really shy and could not get close to me tough I knew they like me and I like them too.
Update: Guys tough I selected the best answer here but I would be thankful to see any other more practical solutions from you.thanks again
11 months ago
boys like shy girl. its easy. all you do is first know that he likes u, then next walk by him and tap him lightly, when he looks at u, just hand him a piece of paper with your name and number. and say hey I know we are both shy, so lets talk over it on the phone!
How about if I don t say anything and just hand my number,Because I can not speak fluently when I am in love with someone and if I do I may be seen more weird.The boy that I like is shy, blushes a lot and always with his boyfriends So it makes situation even harder for me to get close to him. - 11 months ago
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Okay no problem, but first I need to know where are you seeing this boy? are you two in college, have class together? how well you two know each other? - 11 months ago
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Well the fact is that I am a university student .I have seen him for some times in library or other parts of university but we haven't had any class together : ( .The thing that I liked him in first sight was that he was very handsome and better to say pretty face hehe .lol.I haven t even say hello yet because all around him always is groups of his boy friends.He walks,eats,sits same place with them all the time.He some times stares at me when I am unaware but blushes a lot same time. - 11 months ago
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Wow this sounds very familiar to me. I had the same situation when I was in college. send me a private message and ill write in length about it and what you should do - 11 months ago
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Well you gave me a wonderful way to get his number in private message. Thank you. - 11 months ago
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Just bluntly ask. If he don't give it, then that's that.
But I don t know him before to say *hey call me sometimes*.I just saw him few times and I liked very much in first sight. think it would seem weird for him if I do.ty anyways - 11 months ago
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If there isn't anything to say to him to create a conversation, then don't say anything. But find something if you can and go from there.
And it's not always a wise decision to just go after someone you like just because they look "cute" - 11 months ago
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Well yes you are right manner and personality is also another important factor.But honestly don t you think that men also do that.I mean men like to approach a girl who is cute in first sight then they look at her manner or the way she traits him.In fact its natural for all human beings to seek beauty as our god,our world is beautiful also. ; ) - 11 months ago
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^ I used to do that, but I don't do it anymore. It's a hassle if you find out you don't like the girl and maybe she likes you and then you don't rly want to talk to her anymore and things are awkward.
It's much better keeping it at friends level rather than making passes. - 11 months ago
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Yep exactly but still I am not even friend with him.lol.We just saw each other for some times from distance. - 11 months ago
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Just go up to him one day when he's not with his friends and say, "Hey...I see you around all the time *smile* and I want to get to know you. Here's my number," hand it to him. - 11 months ago
When you chat to guys and like them, make it clear that you like them! Ask them for their number, the guy will almost certainly say yes because 1) guys like girls who make the 1st move 2) if they are chatting to you, esp for a little while, it clearly means the guy likes you. By asking for their number also gives out the impression your a confident girl (even if your not, this will increase your confidence). I'm sure it will work.
Thank you I know it would increase my confidence.In fact that's why I am trying yo give my number but problem is that I don t know hoe to start it.I mean which method is best for a shy girl to approch any boy specially the shy ones. - 11 months ago
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You know as a girl you can probably get away with being shy and obtain numbers. What you should do is be near as possible to the guy you like and make sure you give him the occasional look. Make sure you catch eye contact. There is nothing sexier than a girl looking straight into your eyes, turning away then looking over again quite often. It shows she is interested but wants the guy to make the 1st move. Once the guy comes over to you (which he will) and starts a convo you can make your moves! - 11 months ago
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Hehe yes you are right .But in that case again he is the one who makes first step and approaches me.I wanna be the one who comes close to him first because the boy that I like is very shy and I am sure he won t come next to me as he is also most hanged with his friends. - 11 months ago
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Well simple. Do all the eye contact thing with him, go up to him and say "hey you fancy going for a coffee or drink later". If he likes you I'm pretty sure he'll say yes!!!! I don't know many girls who approach guys but when they do, the guys respect the girl for doing it!!! If a girl I liked approached me, it would save me chatting rubbish to her to break the ice lol ha ha Also, I think wow she likes me and would make my day :) - 11 months ago
This might work - try approaching him and bring out your mobile phone. Ask him what mobile network he is on and how his price plan is. Continue to talk to him about your phone. Maybe say something alone the lines of "Gosh, mobile numbers are so tricky to remember?" (they are in this country, maybe in the US - this won't work as they are shorter) "How do you remember yours?". If your number is short, forget this tactic. But talk about your phone and ask him about his until he gets the hint that you want his number.
I'm thinking of trying something like this with a girl I'm interested in - what helps with her is that she is using her mobile a lot of the time. Maybe you should wait until a time when you see him just coming off his mobile or texting.
I should warn you this plan is untested (by me anyway). But I've got a good hunch it might work. ;)
If all else fails, just ask him directly. I appreciate that this might be difficult, if you are shy. The case is the same with me.
Well thast good method but problem is that my phone number is long lol.and I can not get him alone to ask him and talk him in person as he is most hanging with his boy friends.I mean more than one friend always .lol - 11 months ago
just talk to the dude and ask him his number. Guys don't mind wen a girl makes the first move. Just be proactive and confident, and you'll get (and keep) that man ya want
Just have a short conversation with them at a party or whatever, then say "hey I don't rekon I have your number" then get it off him and give him a text or a call round 12 the next day asking if they had fun the night before. Talk for a while then ask if they wanna go to lunch or something.
Thats a good method for girls that are not shy. - 11 months ago
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Thats the whole short conversation part. Or don't you talk to him at all? because if you can't even hold a small conversation, getting there number won't make much difference and your first date would be very akward. If your minds set on it, have a friend get his number and give it to you. Then you can jsut text him and say something like "hey, this is *name*. I got your number of *name* and thought id ask if you want to catch up." - 11 months ago
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Well good idea but I don t have any close friend that can share with them and get help from them to get his number.I am really shy as he is and can not get close to people easily .yes I have some friends but I am not so much intimate with them to say look people I like that boy .I think that method not only decreases my confidence but also results me to see myself as dependent person who is attached to her friends and without them can not find any friend for her.That makes me to feel incapable. - 11 months ago
Just start up a conversation with them. let it go on for a bit then say hey.I have to go right now but let me get your number and we talk more tonight. Or ask a homework question and be like can I get your number in case I need help later. I find getting a guys number is hard to do. so I usually just pass mine out. if I like a guy. I'll have a piece of paper with my number on it carrying it around until the opporunity comes up then I will just hand them the paper and say call me.IF they do .they like you and wanna talk.if they dont. then you didn't just get rejected face to face.
I wanna know why getting guys number must be hard?well I prefer to get their numbers as I don t see any guy pass his number to a girl and say just call me.They most prefer to get girls number .I think if I do that they may thing I am slut and I don t have a serous friendship goal because the girls that only wana have sex not friendship use that same method . - 11 months ago
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Getting a guys number seems to be hard because we are afraid of rejection. If you wait for a guy to give you his number its never going to happen. You haveto ask for it and if your shy then that's going to be task for you.. So, that's why I suggested just giving you there number. Your not a slut.. SLUT means HAVING SEXUAL BEHAVIOR .. your wanna number not in their pants - 11 months ago
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Yes you are true about what you said but I don t wanna be a girl who scares of rejection really.I am shy but I wanna change myself to a more bold one who has more confidence.I have been suffering from this shyness and lost too many peoples that I had a dream to be their friends one day.Even I rejected the bold people who wanted to be my friend because I was shy.So I wanna throw away that.It berings me still to much pain to see that I am incaple to hunt a boy that I want but he can hunt me.lol - 11 months ago
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I understand- your just going to have to put yourself out there ( not being sexually) but do what ever is you want to do. Don't let no one or anything hold you back. You want to talk to a guy talk to him, you want his number, ask for it. The world is in your hand.. act like you own it - 11 months ago
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