I'm always told that I'm a very social girl and I've been told that I'm cute, I don't lack confidence but I'm always stressed when I'm around the guy I like so that prevents me from saying what I want to say and acting ME. Generally, I just screw everything with my stress. What should I do?!
You just need some practice. You'll get better as you get older and gain experience talking to guys you like. I know it doesn't feel this way now but someday you will look back on those nervous butterflies and smile. That's part of the fun! Not knowing if he likes you, trying to flirt without looking foolish, etc.
Man, I feel old dispensing the "someday you will..." type advice! But, it's true. So, enjoy it while you can and don't add more pressure to yourself by being worried that you are, well, worried. :) Good luck!
I do the same thing. The. Damn. Same. Thing. I've found that what works best for me is to just push myself. Even if it's uncomfortable, you'll be so much happier if you actually get into a conversation with him. Either that or bring a friend along. I find that when I'm with someone who knows just how crazy I am, I'm a lot more relaxed. Or do a high energy activity that doesn't leave much room for thinking.. like playing basketball or riding a roller coaster. Words will just flow as you get into the game. If all of that doesn't work.. well.. I remember during speech class in high school.. I would get in front of the mirror and rehearse my speech. Talk to yourself in the mirror. Think up questions to ask him. Find out his interests...who he is...who he wants to be... Best of luck, darlin'!
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
We'll first we'd meet somewhere close to the beach, I'd be dressed in a dressy/casual outfit, most likely my blazer with jeans, t-shirt, and sandals. We'd get a bite to eat at a small restaurant , or if the weather is good a picnic on the beach may be in order. After we eat we would go for a stroll on the beach and watch the sunset at the most scenic spot we can find.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
We would talk about our lives so far, and what our goals are for the future. You'd know my likes/dislikes, my views on love and life. The things that make me attracted to certain people over others. Know about my family and friends. About my work. My turn-ons and offs. My fears and desires, and my dreams. You would know enough to know what kind of person I am.
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