I've been married for about a year and have two kids. Every time my husband and I are spending time together in a public place I always catch him checking out girls he knows I see him and he sometimes tries to pretend as though he is just "glancing" but it bothers me because he does it all the time. I have confronted him many times and it often leads to and argument. He always says that he is just glancing but is it glancing if he looks at their asses or boobs and I'm not insecure about myself I jut wish he would stop.
Good question..no great answer other than it being normal to notice other people (especially odd looking or good looking people.) It is called "attractiveness" for a reason. When people see attractive things, they look. Does it bother you when he looks at other attractive things besides you? For instance, the ocean, a really cool car, a full moon. Probably not. I am not trying to defend bad or irreverent behavior (if he is inappropriate this is different.) However, me and all of my married friends do the same.
A womans body is the most beautiful thing a guy will ever see. There is nothing wrong with looking. I know how you feel. Before I did not like it but what are you going to do hide him behind close doors. No matter what circumstance guys are under they always will be checking out girls. Its a natural response to them. I mean he is not picking up the platter. Be confident about yourself, you know you are all that because he is with you. Ok no reason to argue over something stupid.
Because that is in the nature of man. Really, you can't do anything to stop him, because he probably can't help it. It doesn't mean that he loves you less or doesn't love you, it's just how they are - primal instincts. That or he has to become gay, so unless you want him to be homo or sexless, then forgive and forget. Don't make a fuss about it.
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