So, there's this guy that I work with, and I think he's really cute. We've spoken once, but that was it. Its been at least a month since that conversation, and I have become more interested in him, but he won't even look or speak to me. Maybe a word here or there, but nothing more. My co-workers have told me that he's the most shyist person you'll meet, so I thought to myself, maybe that's why he never says anything to me. My work partner is trying to talk to him for me, and he has told me when he mentions my name, he smiles, but he still won't say anything about me, and my parter is trying to see if he thinks I'm at least cute or something. So, what I'm wondering is, do guys that are usually really shy keep to themselves most of the time when there around a girl they're intrested in, or is he trying to ignore me? I'm looking for more of a guys opinion..thanks.
Update: Thanks! Its good to see everyones insight on the situation. Our co-workers have known him longer than me, and I do trust them. I think that maybe he COULD be interested in me since the conversation, and maybe that's why he might be REALLY shy?
10 months ago
Update: Thanks! Well, last night was interesting none the least. I didn't talk to him, I kind of want to keep it slow for right now, but he kept eye contact with me the whole night. I'm gonna try and flirt with him tonight and see what happens! =)
10 months ago
I'm a really shy person and yeah when I have a crush I never try to talk to them out of shyness. Even if I think they're a bit cute, I would never try to talk out of fear of rejection or embarassing myself in front of her. I really don't think this guy is ignoring you and is most likely just keeping to himself. You should try and talk to him though. Us shy guys love it when we see that a girl is actually interested in getting to know us!
I can't wait to go to work tonight! We acually talked last Friday. I can tell he's definitly shy. He would blush, smile and look away. Its so cute!=) It definitely seems like there's some work to be done, but I think tonight he will feel alittle bit more comfortable talking to me since I went up to talk to him. Idk, well see! - 10 months ago
Well you asked for a guys opinion, but don't you think that's closing a door to an opportunity of good advice? I have actually really liked a shy guy before and once we FINALLY got out of the stage of admitting we liked each other we spent a whole weekend together and I was wondering WHEN is he gonna kiss me WHEN is gonna kiss me. Cause then that would be the "fer sure" moment, if you know what I mean. Point is, we never kissed. and it wasn't the fact that he wasn't into me. Recently I found out it was because of my ex. Whom he thought was still not over me. He was hesitating because he didn't want to get hurt. So to answer your question, no he's probably not ignoring you. If your co workers have known him longer than you have then trust their opinions. Update this if anything new happens, I'm curious as to how this will end up.
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