There was a another question asking "do women think of their man a lot?" All ten or so comments from women have been "I think about him all day and all the time," or somewhere along those lines.
I know from what my girlfriends tell me, it's usually analyzing what he did, why, if it's good or bad and whether or not it needs to be changed. They also chat about their "romantic" fantasies from their barbie playing days within their relationships (weird stuff).
A guy's stand point: I personally only think of my g/f when something comes up ie: an event, something I need from her, a possible gift, whether or not I will upset her if I do X and Y. I know you girls wish we thought of you like "oh may gosh I love her" but from my other guy friends, unless their's something to be done, fixed or when we're comparing boobies... we don't often think of you.
Guys generally communicate to other guys to exchange information while girls usually talk to "share" things with one another. I think this is valid observation that explains when/what they think about while their significant other is not present.
Focus: What do you specifically think about when you think about the other person when they aren't their. Not a single time you've gotten mad or happy with the other person but the general day to day thought of the significant other?
Generally, when I'm not with my boyfriend, I will sometimes sit and reflect on a moment we had, sort of like daydreaming. We went to dinner together last week for example...and all thru dinner he kept looking at me, like he wanted to devour me...and when we got back to the car, he couldn't keep his hands off me. Sometimes, he will say these amazing things to me, that nobody ever has. Like the other day, he told me that he loves me more than he has ever loved a woman before. If you saw the look on his face when he said it, you would want to say.....ahhhhh....how sweet! All kidding aside. I am very analytical by nature...and need answers to all things in life. and that keeps my mind always thinking, churning and of course problem solving. I feel you are right about the differences between men and women...and I feel its wonderful when we can find someone that compliments our personalties... ..Nice question btw.
When I think about my guy I'm usually thinking God I'm horny!. Or if I see something sexual I'll immediately think of him cause he's the one I get sexual with. Other then that maybe if I'm thinking about doing something (going to the movie or out with friends) I'll wonder what hed think about it, if hed be interested. But as for thinking about him all day long everyday, no I don't do that, I've got a life and too many different interests to obsess about any one thing, him included.
If the relationship is new and I really like that person, I think about what I should do to keep that person's interest and think of things he did that week that showed that he is interested or cares about me. and like you guys we compare penises and see which guy is better
A couple of things are you might think about whether they will like the way you wear your hair when you go out, or the clothes you wear, (what the person thinks about your physical appearance, or think about something that was said or done previously, whether it was something you did or they did.
I think when a relationship is new I analyze what they said, what I said, what I should have said, what they did, what I should have done and what I will say and do the next time I see them and what their reaction may or may not be.
Being married I don't really think about all that. Now I think "Oh I wish he could have see our kid do that cute thing" or "did I ask him to take the trash out". Haha :)
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