Sometimes if a girl is friendly it doesn't mean she likes you!

I know the question was asked 6 months ago but I can't resist:

Can an antelope be just friends and hang out with a lion out in the wilderness of Serengeti?

If you would have done all that stuff to me I would have thought you liked me. If you didn't like me than don't start texts with me and ask me to hang out with you and if you do clarify that its just as friends.

I can see where it kinda looks like you like him (at least from his point of view).

i think that women and men can be friends, itll be difficult but I think it can work, reason is is because I used to like my best girl "friend" I told her, and she didn't feel the same way... except for a skirmish we had, we have manged to become friends again, no strings attached

Actualy you need to look at the whole picture. If it was just you being friendly then that's one thing. The problem is most girls are not overly friendly to guys. Infact most girls come off as cold to guys. Its even hard to make small talk with a girl without them acting all serious and not saying anything but maybe one word. So now when a friendly girl does come along its so exciting guys kinda automaticly get goose bumps. There's this one girl at a coffee shop that sits at my table when she is taking my order and she makes jokes dances around. Its like so cool to be around this girl. But part of it is most girls are not like this at all towards guys. Yes girls can be extreamly outgoing and fun but its usualy with other girls. Even girls that are dating guys a lot of the time have the guys walking on eggshells. So you see when this guy sees how friendly you are he starts bragging cause he is so excited. I know it sounded rude but trust me in his mind he was increadibly flatterd. Guys talk like that when we are realy happy about a girl. So what you think is annoying is actualy a major compliment. When aguy says he has a girl who's into him he doesn't know what to do with. He is realy saying its so awsome I have agirl that's this friendly outgoing and into me. Now he got the you being into him wrong. But if guys have to deal with un emotional women 24 7 when it comes to how they act around us. Then you come along and its like he is in heaven. Do you understand what I am saying?

I have that problem a lot too.

I find that most people are just plain narcissists. lol

When you don't want to give off the impression that you're interested in someone, just make sure to keep mentioning OTHER guys. Celebrities don't really count. Periodically mention guys you know and how hot you think one of them is.

Don't do it TOO much to every guy you have a conversation with, though. Guys pick up on it fast when you're doing that intentionally and it makes you seem astronomically conceited.

Whenever you make the first move on a guy first to hang out, MAKE SURE to tell him "just as friends!" Also, if he asks you first and you only want to be friends. Don't leave room for any confusion. If he doesn't understand what they means then pass on him and go to the next. So yeah, girls CAN be friends with guy and do the things that you said, but only if you make it clear when it gets to the point where you start asking him to go some place where you'll be at. One of the reasons for the confusion is also because you ARE too friendly with guys and they sometimes think you're flirting when you're only being nice and having fun and being part of it all. Remember the, "just as friends" thing.

If it was supposed to be a group thing, I don't see why he'd freak out. Nothing wrong on your part.

wow, well he's just immature but who knows, it's not a big deal.

i know right, I find like loads of things funny I'm always laughing and guys just asume that's because I like them and there all like o you like me and its like how does laughing come across as flirting?

lol, so true.lol, but now, we females SOMETIMES think that way too. :) but you just have to what kind of guy they are before you be friendly, because you have some that can play along and some who dont. but that story is funny.