Two years ago I had a great life - lots of friends,a good school I liked, a good social life and I got on with everyone !! then I got picked on by a girl in a school near mine and usually I'm good with dealing with things like this! there was no reason for her to pick on me apart from me being in the wrong place at the wrong time. I'm not a geek or nerd or ugly and fat or the beautiful girl who gets picked on because of her looks!! I left school because of this. I distanced myself from friends and my social life and now two years on I have no friends, no social life, no education!
I have tried to go back to school but I left because it got to much for me. I'm trying to go back to school again next week and I want to make new friends I just want a life similar to the one I used to have and loved! but I'm afraid I'll leave again because it'll get too much! What can I do to make myself back to my old outgoing, fearless self and stick school out!! If I don't get my education I can never get away from this place!!help I want me back
Okay, you need to move on, not worry about what you lost. I'm not saying you need to do anything different, just maybe for different reasons. One of the reasons it probably got to be too much was because you kept getting reminded of this girl that picked on you. And you seem to know your strengths, and that that girl had no right to pick on you, so I think you should move on and go to school knowing that you're probably going to succeed. Because from what I know of you from this, you probably will.
She was jealous of you. girls target other girls out of insecurity. maybe the guy she liked preferred you, maybe your clothes were cuter than hers, maybe she envied your hairstyles.
anyways, don't let 1 insecure bitch change your life. you are probably gonna meet truckloads of other girls who are just like her and you have to know how to handle them. don't let a bitch phase you. always defend yourself and speak your mind. you didn't do anything wrong except be better than her so don't let some jealous skank intimidate you ok?
get back in school and get into contact w/ your old friends and rebuild your life! good luck x
Hmm, I am slightly confused on why you are letting this one girl affect your whole life. You are you. No matter what anyone else says. The simple fact that this girl picked on you in the first place only shows her insecurities as a person. Ignore her. Don`t let her control your action.
For two years you have disconnected from everyone because of one girl? Sweetheart, sounds like to me you need to look yourself in the mirror. You lost yourself over one small situation. The real world is very cruel. You need to tough up and see that you are better than that. Go out, make new friends, be strong. And don`t let what one miserable person thinks ever stir you away from your path.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 10 months ago
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