Are you married and cheating or considering?

I am married for a long time and they have been all rocky years with the exception of the first week. I don't know how I've managed to hang in there. We still have sex but my husband has an addiction to porn and has referred to me as a last resort. My reason for "wanting" to cheat is just to be with someone who actually WANTED to be with me and didn't consider me to be his last resort. I would want it to just be NSA purely sexual but being a girl I have a feeling that my emotions would flare up simply because I've been neglected for so long. I have approached men but maybe I give off this desperate signal so they have all turned me down. I am attractive and even girls have come on to me but the guys I would "want" to cheat with aren't interested in me. So I guess I can't be bad no matter how much I'm trying. What luck.

I have been married for 10 years and it has been rocky for at least 6 of them. Throughout that time I thought of cheating and really wanted too(never did) I wanted to just for the excitement and thrill. Never thought about expectations or the future with someone else, I just wanted to feel wanted or needed at that moment. It now has been over a year since I had sex with my husband and let me tell ya that at one point I really wanted to go out and get some(still haven't) and I was offered the chance a few times but I don't think I can go through with it even though we are getting a divorce. I think it is because it has been so long since I have been with someone else that it is scary and so aren't all those diseases.

Single, and on and off with a few people.

Yes, I am married. 15 years Yes I have cheated and it was just a sexual thing. I have done it twice. The first time was someone I met and we messed around no intercourse it did go as far as boob sex. Second time I was out of town for a bout a month. Met this waitress at dinner my last night in town. I was 31 she was 20..the situation presented itself and one thing lead to another.

Currently there is a woman I want to be with..I hope if this works out it would just be a sexual thing. Two adults helping each other out.