Party girls (not single)

Not to sound too straight forward but I had a problem with a boyfriend of mine used to get mad over stuff like that too that shy I ain't with him no more but I just want to say a dance is just a dance now if she goes messing around then yeah that's a different story but she's just dancing that won't hurt nothing.

I couldn't submit a comment, but I totally agree with Stanley. Going out having fun with friends is one thing. Grinding on strange guys giving the wrong impression is another.

Well, I guess it's a good thing she openly admitted what she's doing so there won't be any surprises. At least she's honest, right?

You should definitely let her know you're not cool with her doing that, but only you can decide whether or not it's a deal breaker. Do you trust her? It's really no way any lady should be acting, especially one with a boyfriend. In order to protect your heart it may be necessary to not get involved with her further until she calms down a bit, gets a little self respect and is able to consider your feelings.

Good luck making your decision.

Lol I love this question especially the "ya know,...my girl on a random f***ing crotch!!" part. lol you need to tell her she can't be grinding on other guys when she's with you because it shows no respect for you. I'm dating someone and I would never in a billion years go to a club and dance with another guy like that unless it was my gay best friend lol so you really need to tell her before it gets too out of hand!! and don't be afraid to tell her either if she has a problem with it then that's her issue not yours.

I would be upset if I knew my girlfriend did this. It is really grossly unacceptable behavior for her to do this. All you can do is talk to her about it and decide if you want to continue the relationship. It sounds like she enjoys teasing guys, and is not ready to stop - boyfriend or not!

A girl like that doesn't love anyone (not even herself). You reap what you sow and you know what she's working on. You don't have to get over it - it's not an okay thing to do. Dump her.

As long as you've developed a frame of high value for yourself with your girlfriend, then you shouldn't have anything to worry about. The only way she'll cheat on you is if one of these club guys manages to display a value higher than yours.

Of course, if you're talking about being in love with her and are still having these insecurities, I have the feeling that you haven't developed high value, and your girlfriend is probably cheating on you already. You've been doomed since the start. No offense.

Hope that helps. :)

I agree with marie below. You can't judge people and everyone and everbody's relationships are different. From what I have seen and experienced, party girls are kind of risky for love and monagamy. Listen to the women here, and keep your eyes open.