I'm depressed and need a boyfriend, what do I do?

Hey I'm in the same situation I have no friends they all moved away and all I do is sit in my house!! And wouldn't go to school so I have no contact with the social world!! I took an overdose a year ago and it really hurt me when I realized I hadn't died and that nobody had even cared about the fact I took 50 pills!! But seriously my life is looking up now!! Well kinda!! My advice to you is change school or start college or change job or get a new job!! You will make friends from this just be outgoing even if your not fake it!! And just don't do anything bad to anyone that would make people distance them self from you! You do not need a boyfriend nobody does my number 1 thing is never get involved with a guy if your feeling this low what you do is sort your life and you out first before you even look at get involved with a guy!! And I know killing yourself seems the only thing and way out but its not!! You can always have a fresh start!! Just think of all the things you want to do in life and know that killing yourself is giving up the chance to do any of them things ! That's what I did and I'm starting my new school in September !! And I'm just hoping throwing myself back out there will help me its not easy though I moved away to get my fresh start maybe that could be something to consider?? But definitely do try go college, school or change college or school or change job or get a job!! Good luck don't give up really!! <3 <3 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

First of all killing yourself is not the solution for your problem, kindly take the help from doctors about your depression. When you feel good then you will think positive and any good boy can be attract toward you. For this you can visit http://www.simplyanswer.com and can take medical help online or you can visit your nearest doctor.

You need to seek counseling for your depression. It's obvious you have some very serious issues to deal with here. A boyfriend will not help you deal with them. Can you talk to your parents or a relative about this? Good luck; don't let this continue.

When people take things to extremes the often don't take time to think about the big picture (which is your health) and we - you and I now because I'm answering, you have my attention- we want to start thinking positive. So there's got to be some things that you like to do, where other people are going to be. Do you have a pet, where you can meet other pet owners. Do you like movies where you can talk to other people about what movies that are good and new ones coming out. I mean, I'm trying to imagine you and I feel we need some positive small goals can you set that are going to make you feel better about yourself. Maybe read more, learn a new hobby, try an instrument. This is where you can try to establish things that are going to help you connect to more people on a wider scale, increasing your chances for making friends or whatever. Then you meet one person, and they introduce you to another person. But Everything takes time and a little effort. There are a few phrases that come to mind but Axel Rose said it best: Just a little ... Patience.

It's what we all hate: Patience, but it's something we must have. Maybe when you take some time to decide on what will work to your advantage, you might just get the idea you were looking for the whole time, and it was disguised by this depression. Maybe try keeping a "positive thoughts" journal while you are doing this self discovery work to try and help focus on the better things that you have going for you. I can see that you have the courage to ask a question like this, so please take the courage, patience and time to make a difference. And like music, tv, food, sports, games, animals, shopping, even exercising, are only just examples or tools to help interact and there are many more, just got to put in some (and here's that dirty four-letter word) work. Nothing is easy. But you do some self work and then see how you can relate to others. Maybe see how you can change up this new style/ whatever and work on it some more and make it ever better.

If you are truly this depressed a relationship won't help. It will only act as a temporary band aid. When problems arise in the relationship it will only add to your stress levels. Take a step back and look at the situation.

Hey!! put your chin up girl! Don't say that, things may seem bad right now but I promise you that in the end they will get better, trust me, I've cut myself many times and I've overdose on different pills but no matter how hard it is don't give up!! This is the test of life some are harder for others and the important thing to do is to keep yourself happy! I know it may be hard but for real, don't let things like having a bf get you down that stuff causes a lot more problems than you think! Have you tried going out at all to places where people your age are? consider that but pull yourself together don't fall!

Awww...I'm sorry your going through this. <3 I think you should try to get help and talk to a counselor. That should be your first priority. Don't look for a boyfriend right now because you're not in the right emotional state for a relationship. Work on doing things for yourself before you bring a guy into your life.

Well...first of all..don't kill yourself. Second, just relax! Keep an open mind. This way you can actually feel comfortable about yourself when you are around other people. If you need a boyfriend...you need to start getting out there. You can't pray to have a guy just come to you, you have to start talking to people. Be acceptable to different personalities...try to connect and make guy friends. This way, you'll be able to meet someone and actually have a boyfriend. But like I said, that's possible if you get out there and start presenting yourself in the best of manner! Good Luck!

I would suggest talking to someone about this. Going to see a psychologist and sorting out your problems is going to help you out 10x more than having a boyfriend.