How can I get back at my boyfriend?

it ain't as big a thing as youd imagine. its an obvious gender difference which is why its over played but do your thing be happy and feel sexy cos you are. the right dude will find you, once you get past all the other frogs jumping your way. give every guy a chance. that's a good rule of thumb. 'more of a turn on' - check out the fashion industry. kate moss etc. there's a whole style of woman but I think at risk of sounding sleazy when I ain't trying to be the most special thing about your breasts is that they are your breasts. look at it this way, you're beautiful and that's one of the tenderest parts of you right over your heart. it ain't about size darling. good luck

ps maybe he wasn't breast fed as a child!

wow if you didn't live far I would talk... anyway... to get back at someone is a bad way of doing things. hey I just ran away from a 2 1/2 year thing... she got back at me by sleeping aroung with my brother and 2 cousins...i wanted revenge but there is this thing called karma... what goes around comes around and do unto others what you want done to you...you reap what you sew... did I miss any?

Dump the idiot, find someone that appreciates you.

I also think that you value people to much on their physical aspects...your body doesn't say ANYTHING about who you are...

If we would have to pass a certain test before we wore born and the outcome of that test would determine our looks we could say that looks say something about you...But it's completely f***ing random and no one choose to be the way they look...Some accept it and try to make the best of it, others just get mad at themselves for no real reason.

This guy is an idiot.
As for finding a man without a boob fixation, it's easier than you think. there are more butt men out there than boob men, honestly.

If this guy says he's going to dump you if your chest gets smaller due to you working out, losing weight, and generally making yourself healthier for your own benefit, then you need to dump him. Right now, no questions about it.

If he wants a woman with bigger breasts, there are plenty of them out there, and he can find all sorts of women who are what he considers the ideal body type. But sweetheart, here's the thing -- if he's telling you this now, what happens when you want to make some other kind of change in your life later down the road, and he threatens to dump you if you make that change? It's a form of control and maniuplation that very insecure guys make because they're not smart enough to know the difference, but they also think you ladies are not smart enough to call them on it.

Well, call him on it. Don't even give him an opportunity to change in this case. This guy sounds like a very shallow individual, and it's not going to get any better if you were to let him get away with this. Don't wait to do it until you've lost the additional weight that you want to and see his reaction. Have enough respect for yourself to refuse to put up with this crap from him. Dump his ass. NOW.

(P.S. - I prefer women with larger breasts myself, but I would NEVER change my feelings for the woman I'm with just because her body shape changes. You'll find most other men that you would ask this question of will tell you the same thing.)

wow, he's an immature jerk.

Wow what a situation. He likes you just the way you are. You want to be smaller. I would just have to appreciate his viewpoint. After all he did choose you at a higher weight. But it is up to you if you want to be healthier or be with him. To sum this up, if he is only interested in your cup size then move on cause our bodies change eventually anyway. what attracted you to him in the 1st place?

next time ur in bed with him doing the dirty hold bk on organisming then at some point say baby did you shrink cause I'm just not cumming tonight. lol jk don't do that he'll never forgive you but in all seriousness what an idiot If I were you he wouldn't be allowed to touch the girls for a while no respect for their size means he doesn't get to touch.

Wow, that made me upset reading that. He's a moron...I'm sorry you have to go through this. He's not worth your time...If he really had your best interest at heart (being healthy), he would support you and love your body nonetheless.

He's a shallow boy that needs to grow a pair. You need to find a man who will appreciate you and your new hot body. There are plenty of guys who like smaller breasts. Finding them will be trial and error. I doubt you'll find a lot of guys who don't like perky B cups. :-)

If he likes only ur breasts,y are you with him?Sounds like an idiot..sorry XD

When a guy looks at you he will see your smaller chest. If he likes it or is into it, he will let you know. Don't worry about it. I used to be self conscious about my boobs. I started out as a AA cup and made my way to a small B cup. I had 2 children and they inflated to DD's and then went down to an A cup. I fell in love with my bigger breasts and then was disappointed and self conscious about my small chest again. I thought about it for a second and realized that guys would like me with my smaller breasts because my breasts were smaller when I got pregnant. The same goes for you. They will like you regardless.

just dump him he's being immature.
and plenty of guys like small boobs I'm a 32 A and I barely fit into that at 19 so I know that's as big as they are getting and plenty of guys like me and none have ever even said anything bad about my small chest size

Why are you still with this guy? Your man is a jerk. If someone is dating you they are supposed to care about you and support you, not belittle you and put you down. He cares more about your boobs than you, don't you think you can do better? He has no right to treat you that way and you shouldn't take it. Call him on his bullshit and show him you deserve better or he will forever be putting you down.

Heres 5 things you should do:

1. Dump him now. He doesn't deserve you and you surely don't deserve what he gives.

2. Work out to maintain your weight. Your BMI is great right now. Take it from someone whose has that 18/19 BMI, it doesn't look all that much different and it certainly isn't better. Work out to maintain your current healthy weight.

3. Buy a new outfit and camera. Make sure you look great. Get some of your female friends to go out with you and take pictures. Play tourist in your own city and ask random cute guys to take pictures of you and with you.

4. Wait about three to four months. Have fun and live your life. Make new friends and learn to enjoy your own company.

5. Send the pictures to his email or webpage. Send them with a message like I just wanted you to know that I am doing okay or I want to thank you because our relationship taught me a lot about myself and the woman I can be. BY NO MEANS do you take him back. Remember number one.