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I don't know if I should tell him I like him...he's still sending mixed signals. I don't know what he wants...

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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okay so sorry for another "does he like me" story but ill summarize:

1- we go to same school met over a year ago, attraction, flirting, social grp of friends, had classes together
2- he shows all the signs, staring, eye locking, smiling, asked for my number a million times, called texted, picked on me, teased me, had deep talks with me, found excuses to touch me
3- after we didn't have class anymore, he disappeared. I tried calling him, texting, he'd reply here and there, guess he wasnt that into me huh
4- we still see eahc other bumping into one another, I'm trying to move on, even though I was crazy about him, and he doesn't talk to me anymore we don't know about each others lives anymore, or contact through phone and stuff, but he still stares, smiles, eye locks, and such...
5- I always have to make the move to write on his fb wall or call him, and he replies and acts nice here and there, but it doesn't go too far
6- his in person signs still makes me think like he likes me, I think he's holding back because we can't have a future our religions are different, I think he wants to marry someone of his own kind...but I think he likes me too he's just scared...

i don't know what to do form here, because I seriously like him, does he like me or not?


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Adidas12
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Adidas12      When: 6 months ago
I think he likes you, but there is defintiely something that is keeping him from having a reltaionship. He is probably really wanting one with you, but perhaps there are other things in his life that are slightly more important right now, and he will prioritize you as more important when he gets through those things. It might mean you have to wait until he gets out of school , or gets a job that he's comfortable with. A lot of people are born with their brains wired this way, even me. I have to do one thing in life at a time. Hope this helps.
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anthony1156
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anthony1156      When: 5 months ago
i think you should just tell him how you feel and ask him the same question and if he says no then you should move on or this will keep bugging you. trust me I've delt with this too but with a girl
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maxisam      When: 9 months ago
I think don't have many choices left. Since it seems like it's been such a long time, I suggest you should just open up to him, and if he turn you down , tell him don't bother you until you move on. Tell him it is hard to get over him, so you need time to let go.

So if he turn you down, there will be two case:
He will call you even you ask him not to.

Don't pick up the phone until the third time.
Or wait until you receive 2 email or text message.
(However, it really needs to depend on the content if he send text message or email)

If he does above actions, I think maybe you can back in the game.

Otherwise, I think you should just move on. Sorry.
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Vyxzuw
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Vyxzuw      When: 9 months ago
I'd say he's attracted to you definitely.

However, I'd say that he doesn't want to pursue anything because he thinks eventually he'll have to break up with you (like you said, no real future...)

And I'd say that he probably likes you too much to just be friends.

If you can convince him to have a relationship either knowing that you will eventually end it (only date while your in school) and keep it semi-casual or that you could have a future together, I'd say that it's not going to happen. :/

It's sad that he can't at least make an effort to stay in touch or at least make his intentions clear instead of just pulling away.
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Question Asker I like your perspective. It makes sense. Especially the part about he likes you too much to just be friends, because this entire time I was wondering even if he doesn't like me in that way, can he at least because a friend...welll I guess I know now why not. It must be hard. =/ no wonder they say don't turn friendship into love - 9 months ago
 

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Tamikaze
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Tamikaze      When: 4 months ago
Do not make excuses for his behavior or try to explain it. A guy who likes you wouldn't be acting this way. You need to move on so that you can find someone who does like you and does want you.
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Jasper_911
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Jasper_911      When: 7 months ago
Okay. SO Talk to him and ask. If this dude showed all the signs then ask him why aren't you talking to me anymore?!? or maybe his parents won't let him talk to you that much. As you said different Religions. SO that might have something to do with it.
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luvnhim09      When: 8 months ago
that's interesting. I understand ur point of view...my religion also stops me from liking certain guys. I would say that you need to confront him and tell him how you feel. if it is however the religion things, you guys might wanna try it out before actually saying there's no future. I'm somewhat in the same situation, the guy I like would not be approved of my parents...so it is hard.

you jus need to tell him and find out what the deal is. if it can't be a relationship...then try to keep it as friends. after all if it doesn't work out, what's better, forgetting each other or friends?
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Nitty-Gritty What's best is to forget the religion. - 4 months ago
Answerer Not so sure that's a good thing....depending on what religion you may be coming from. - 4 months ago
Nitty-Gritty What religion, how funny. - 4 months ago

 
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Anonymous User      When: 8 months ago
well... I would definetley tell him about how you feel, and if you find out that he doesn't like you, tell him not to send mixed signals.
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Jussy0715
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Jussy0715      When: 9 months ago
He may like you but his religion doesn't allow that type of relationship...To clarify you must write his religion. But honestly if he dissapeared that fast he was either caught in that situation of relationship vs. religion or he just gave up. Try a few more times to keep in contact but if he doesn't show the same emotion back...recycle him...=[
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ArizonaHighways
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ArizonaHighways      When: 9 months ago
I'm just going to come out and be an asshole by saying that religion, being as ridiculous and imaginary a concept as it is, is no reason to not be with someone you really like-might potentially love.

Sorry.

Carry on.
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Question Asker Dont be sorry. I'm religious myself, and I still agree with you. I never thought id end up in this position. I don't know if its love, but I do know that I like him enough to put religion aside and just be with him at the moment. life sucks. =/ - 9 months ago
Nitty-Gritty .
Life Sucks . . He DOESN'T EXIST!
- 4 months ago
 
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