Thats a question of whether the girl does it or not or if she has had personal experiences with it. For example, I smoke it, so I'm fine if a guy does. In fact, I really like a guy who everyone says that his being a stoner is a huuuuge turn off, but I don't care. For another example, my friend doesn't smoke, and she never will because her dad screwed up a lot with drugs, etc. And it really affected her. So she couldn't go out with her boyfriend because he kept smoking and it just caused problems. He didn't respect that about her and didn't want to stop for her. But anyway, it really depends on the girl and her experiences - or stereotypes - with pot.
I don't mind as long as he isn't high ALL the time and is still responsible. I dated a pothead and the guy was the lamest boyfriend ever. he was so boring, lazy, and never wanted to do anything with me so I had to let him go.
I have no problem whatsoever with it.. I don't smoke cigarettes or anything but from my knowledge weed can't kill you so it's whatever. if you want to smoke it then smoke it.. but if you do what my friends brother does, which is he gets high with his friends and some other girls when she isn't there and calls and breaks up with her and that kind of stuff then says he didn't mean it and gets back with her like 2-5 times a month.. then id be ticked.
I'm going to be blunt.I have tried weed before and personally friends of mine do it, and I don't find anything wrong with the fact of a person doing it, but as far as dating someone who smoked weed I wouldn't do. This is only because i've dated someone who was an avid user of pot and he was always at his friends smoking pot or if he wasn't he was wondering how he was going to get some. I didn't really feel that he was interested in me or was ever even straight any of the times he was with me.Most girls that say its not a turn off haven't dealt with dating a pot smoker.
I am personally not attracted to guys who smoke weed. I find it makes them look unhealthy, lazy and immature. Not that I would have anything against a guy that does this, it's just that I would see him as more of a friend then a potential boyfriend.
I find no problem with it until you can't afford your own habit. I would never give my boyfriend money for it. If he wants to do it he better have money to pay for it. I also don't think they should do it every single day just on the weekend or with friends. Don't let it take over your life and I would be fine with it.
I personally don't have a problem with it if it's used recreationally. It's only a problem for me when it keeps you from taking care of what needs to get done. Like if you sit around high all day eating cheese poofs collecting unemployment- NOT OK! But on the weekends you want to unwind and light up, that's no biggie. It's in the same category as drinking for me. It's fine in moderation, but when it starts having a negative impact on other areas of your life it's a problem.
I personally don't like it, but I just found out that the love of my life is smoking weed, he told me later in the relationship, and I told him at the beginning of the relationship that if I find out that he smokes weed, i'm going to dump his ass. well I didn't because I love him so much, but I was super pissed off at him for a long time!
I dated a guy for 6 and a half years. For 3 and half of those years, he was a total pothead. I absolutely HATED it! All he wanted to do was smoke pot. He was always over at his friend/dealers. He would go weeks without calling me when we lived in separate states. And then when I moved out there, I hardly saw him still. He was constantly choosing his weed and his friends over his long term girlfriend. Not only is it annoying, but pot can get you arrested, it makes you smell like crap, and it makes ur cum taste nasty. I would say either date a girl that's into pot or give it up.
I dated a weed smoker before. No offense but its waaaay too much work dealing with the habit of his. I loved him like crazy but it sucked when he would have a bad day that he would go light it up. One time he even came high for our date. He didn't do it constantly but it was enough to make me realize that I just didn't want to deal with that again. Then again, every girl is different.
Truthfully specking does it prohibit you from functioning? Because if it does no matter what the situation I would say its a bad way of trying to get a girl. Unless she is pot smoker too! You need to look at what you what out of a girl regardless of if its legal or not.
One thing to remember here; its illegal! You could get arrested, or it may come back to haunt you years later. If you try to get into law enforcement, or any job where you need a background check or security clearance, like a Government job, it could keep you from getting it.
I just started smoking again. I guess seeing girls smoke really turns me on!I know a lot of people think this is strange,but also a lot of people...
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