My boyfriend is a very outgoing type of guy that's likes to go out and talk a lot of bullshit. He has tons of friends and this of course includes girls. On the other hand, I'm a quiet and not a very social person and hates to BS. I don't know why we're together but he say I'm different compare to other girls..Anyways, when he hangs out with his girl friends he seem to be all over them and all touchy. Especially when he drinks. Yea, I am a bit jealous and insecure and I know that is something I need to work on my end. My question is, what is consider going too far with this "girl" friend thing? I mean what signs should I look out for that would tell me his action or the girl friend's action is crossing the line. I know flirting is natural and is healthy....but at the same time I don't want to be blind. It's tough on me because we don't hang out with the same kind of crowd. His group of friends like to party and get trashed. While my group of friends are older and more reserve. He tells me he like me a lot and these girls don't matter to him. But when he is around them he is like their bitch. What should I do?
What attracts you to him? It seems like he and his circle of friends consist of entirely different people compared to you and your group.
If you try to change his behavior, you'll risk losing him, but if you don't change his behavior, be prepared to deal with jealousy issues for the duration of your relationship. He may decide to calm down and focus on you, but don't count on it.
Well, for one thing your boyfriend seems to be living the life of a single guy, while dating you on his "off" days. I would say you guys definitely need some time for yourselves and to build your relationship. Sometimes there is just too much going on in your lives for a relationship to develop. Definitely take some time away from both of your friends to develop your relationship. Also when he is out with you his attention should be on you, not some other girls, especially when they are his friends. I would say he needs to invite you out more with his friends and give you more of his undivided attention, and if he is all over his "friends" when you are with him, then he is clearly not considering your feelings and that would already be "going way too far".
Yeah I agree, and maybe he just need time to adjust. I figure I give some time to see what comes up. I have tried hanging out with his friends...but they all trying to be BS with me justbecause i'm his GF. I just know w/our friend differ will be a problem - 7 months ago
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