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If a girl loses interest in you, is there no hope?

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(Age:18 to 24) When: Over a year ago

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Somehow if a girl is creeped out or she loses interest in you, is there still hope or should you just move on?

To be more specific, she asked me out and showed some classic signs of interest (mirroring)

Update: But here's another question: Can a girl ever like someone again if she were creeped out? What if the guy made a conscious effort to change his behavior? will the girl's mind ever change? Over a year ago


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xxheytherexx

Over a year ago

She probably is not creeped out by you in the way you think. She may have said this because you have not made a move or act weird around her, so it is her excuse because she doesn't want to have feelings for you that aren't shared and end up with a sore heart. You still have a major chance, you need to be bold and go out and get her!

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lildivagurl09

Over a year ago

From personal experience guys that I was creeped out by have no chance... It's like once they hit the creepy mode there is no going back... if I were you I would just move on... when you meet a girl don't be overly nice... be kinda of a dick at first... have that confidence that everyone likes you... and don't get nervous or say stupid stuff... sometimes its better just to stand back and let everyone else do the talking... be mysterious... then the girl will want to here you talk and be intrigued...

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- mz4568
  Over a year ago
  Mystery can lead to being intrigued by someone... but the "be kinda of a d*** at first" only applies to really dumb girls. The type of girls you screw and lose. The guy should be nice but not too aggressive. To reject someone because they were nervous is immature and just stupid. Girls who behave this way only end up dating losers in life.
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Nicka

Over a year ago

Well in most cases this is how it goes: After losing interest in you she will have to see you with another person and if she gets bothered by it then she probably still has interest in you. If not then she really is over you...

To the next question...When a woman makes up her mind especially one that knows what she wants she most likely won't give a damn that you change...

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N/A

Over a year ago

hoenstly, its best just to move on.

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N/A

Over a year ago

Well all depends on how "creeped" out she was.

And if you show her that you are willing to change your behaviour well that is a start..but being a girl myself..once a guy turns me off..and especially "creeps me out" I am no longer interested, no matter what they do...

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4u2nv

Over a year ago

If she is creeped out, there is no luck.

If she liked you & was mirroring you, yeah you have definitely have hope.
Don't move on. I don't know if you creeped her out, but I'd say this chick likes you. You can for sure win a girl back, if she had a little something for you before.

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- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Yeah, it seems best to leave her alone. If she wants to talk to you, she'll come up to you.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Yeah, but I think that I shouldn't approach her for now, because whenever I speak to her, she acts all uninterested. But at least her friend is more open to me. So I don't know what I should do. I get this vibe from her that she wants me to stay away from her, so I don't know how to remedy this situation. I can't start a convo with her because I'm afraid that I'll creep her out even more, especially when I feel nervous about it.
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  That is most likely the reason! (yelling) But you could be totally cool other than that. I would lay low on the yelling, and let the gentle side of you shine for awhile. If you see her, start a conversation with her, make sure that it is an interesting conversation though. Maybe have one of your friends with you also.
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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Well, someone asked her what she thought of me and another person. I heard that she said that she was creeped out by me. She later said that she might probably rethink her decision if she knew me well. But I can't say for certain that it's the truth, because I wasn't there. At least she didn't defriend me from facebook, if she did then I am sure that she would be creeped out. I think she saw me as creepy because I have a tendency to yell a lot.
- Answerer
  Over a year ago
  Yeah, if you don't know what you did, then I would not chase after her...it's probably just the way you are. Plus sometimes if you stop chasing after a girl, they will chase back after you.
  
  To your update: Her mind could change. Maybe you were having too many signals that you liked her, she might have stopped liking you. She might like a chase to, not to be chased. So maybe if you let loose on her and try moving on she'll make a loop and come back after you.
- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Yeah but I heard that she told someone that she was creeped out by me. And she even started to ignore me. I thought that she liked me because she gave me some very obvious signs of interest. Now she either doesn't speak to me that much or doesn't notice me. I have no idea what I have done. I can't even tell whether a girl is creeped out by me or not.
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Milton

Over a year ago

theres hope depending on what all happened, but the guy usually can win her back somehow.

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JustDance

Over a year ago

Once you go creepy, you don't come back.

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kinger

Over a year ago

move on mate the more you try the less they like you. Show less interest in her but still be nice. but don't fuss around her. The less you do the more you get at that stage.

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allenator

Over a year ago

if she's not interested she's not interested.

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tex151

Over a year ago

What exactly did you do to her to creep her out?

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  I have no idea. I heard that I creeped her out from another person. I just have no clue what's going on.
N/A

Over a year ago

I would say it is very possible for a girl to like a guy she once loved before seeing as she was interested in him at one point but that's my opinion. You should ask yourself this though: would you ever be interested in a girl (again) that you once loved but lost interest in?

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- Question Asker
  Over a year ago
  Yeah. but I won't be interested in a girl I once loved who broke my heart or did anything horrible to me.
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chettah-two

Over a year ago

You have to reverse and regroup.. Give it time.
Go back and start looking for other people.
WHY,because she'll respect you and not take you for granted...

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