Do guys like the girls in porn/strippers/prostitutes better or do they like the person that they're with? Is the reason guys watch porn so much is so that they can fantasize about their "ideal girl" so it makes up for they're "not so perfect" partner? Because I'm quite small bust wise (yeah, not ideal for guys and I know it's a fault...), smart, kinda pretty and not a whore, but the last guy I dated preferred to watch porn and have a stripper girlfriend even though he told me I was better.
Are all guys like that, or is there just something wrong with me?
Not all guys are like that. Some guys watch porn from a purely visual standpoint--the on-screen acts are not something that they necessarily want to do, just something that they're interested in seeing. When girls have similar fantasies, they tend to get more enjoyment from imagining about them or reading them in a book than actually seeing the real thing. So, from that angle, guys and girls are similar but different.
However, if a guy is impressionable, he might grow to believe that a porn star is the ideal woman to have. If he's young and naive, superficial appearance might be his only requirement in a girlfriend.
There's nothing wrong with you. In fact, some men prefer women with smaller busts. Their figures tend to age much better. Be glad that the guy broke up with you, because now you're free to find someone who thinks that you're much more attractive than a typical porn star.
The women in those movies are just portrayed as liking and enjoying sex... something that doesn't happen in real life without a lot of work. I am sure if there was a video of regular people having sex, a guy would watch that too. The real fantasy is being able to have sex with someone who doesn't have issues with it. Our society has a lot of rules and issues with the topic. I understand why the sex issue is differently viewed by all the parties involved, but in the end we watch porn and go to strip clubs because it's less work, and makes us feel good that there are, or might be, others who aren't so inhibited.
Not all guys prefer guys with big breasts; i've dated girls with a, and b sizes and to me, they were very hot women... About your question----porns are good when you got a dry spell going and you need some audio and visuals to masturbate to. And I wouldn't say guys watch porn to fantasize about their ideal girl; never had any of my male friends say, 'geez, let me go watch a porn so I can get fantasize about my ideal girl...'
If anything we watch porn cause we're bored, cause we aren't getting any, cause we want to masturbate, or simply cause there is nothing better to do....
Now, if you're smart and pretty, what the hell were you doing with a guy that was dating strippers? The reason guys date strippers is cause they know is easy sex, and also, if they get lucky, they meet other strippers and you increase your chances of having more sex.....but honestly, I don't know many guys that go out looking for strippers to date for long term relationships. Sure, we go to strip clubs to talk sh!t and to get friction dances, but we surely don't go there hoping to meet our ideal girl...well, maybe the ideal girl to masturbate to :)
Porn is good for visuals. I think guys like to fantasize about the situation. Do you really think most guys would like some girl who has slept with that many people? She could be the hottest woman on the planet, but knowing that 10, 20, 30 or even 40 thousand people have been there before. . . well that's a little bit of a turn off.
I don't think women should feel threatened by porn. They should surprise their guy every once in awhile by being more open during sex and maybe acting a little more like a porn star. I say every once in awhile because if it happens all the time it can get boring and maybe a bit scary.
It's not that guys like the porn star or whatever better. They look at all that because what porn stars do turn them on. They just like their breasts or their butt or something. That's why they watch it. Their is nothing wrong with you. It's just hows guys are!
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