He asked my number, he asked me out (maybe just casual hang out, not a date), we spent like a day (movie, dinner, coffee, etc), he drove me home, etc. After he got home, he called me n said, "maybe next time we can go out again"! (long story, but we couldn't make it, because I was away for Hong Kong and he returned to Australia. So the only way is I return to Australia as well).
Then after 2 days, when we were texting each other, we had a convo about the past relationships and bloody hell all of sudden he told me, "YOUR KIND OF GUY IS TOO IDEAL. I WONDER IF YOU CAN FIND THAT GUY!" (i only said that I'm into a guy who is serious and commit in a relationship and not into a player). then he continues, "NO ONE IS FAITHFUL IN THIS WORLD AND A HUMAN BEING IS SO ANNOYING!! I HAVE A PLAN THAT I WOULDN'T GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP UNTIL I GET 30ish". I was like WTF? I didn't even ask anything and he just bluffed like that!!
I felt like somehow he was a jerk!! what do you think?
Update: PS: as much as I liked him, but I was totally turned off! then I stopped everything to contact him. but he was sending me texts and its been 2 days already and I only answered it short and right to the point. I really don't get it!!!
9 months ago
Well, depends how you see it....at least he is telling you he doesn't want commitment and he is ready to be playing th field. He could have pretended, gotten what he wanted, and then leave. What if he went along and pretended to be a nice guy, then played you and then he left you? Which method do you prefer? So yea, he is a jerk, but honestly, a nice one :P Is all perspective. Of course, from what you describe, he is not your type of guy, so best to get rid of him.
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