Why do men have to be rude to girls who are bigger?

If a MALE disrespect a women base on their size, he ain't no MAN at all.
he is a RAT.

I'm sorry that people do that to girls with such situations. I noticed that when a guy does it, they have a feeling of placement. Not for insecurity or because they fear it or even because they are trying to impress people. In my opinion they do it because they feel like there placed higher then people like that.
It's a horrible truth but people with good looks and big ego's are catered to not shunned. Where do you think the saying "Nice guys finish last" is proven? It's proven by every jock that picks on a nerd and the girls laugh at the nerd. These people have no real value in there life so they hold onto this superiority complex that makes them feel so much better.
It's also called shadowing and they see themselves in you, what I mean by that is they can't see themselves with out there good looks or whatever that makes them feel better. So in essence there lower then everyone in everything else but whatever it is that makes them feel better. So they hold on to it and confirm it every chance they get and are rewarded for it by other around them. It's a horrible cycle and I wish it wasn't true.

I think that when people make fun of other people for any reason, it is typically a way for them to try and take focus off themselves for something that they are self conscious of. If they are making comments about other people, then they are not thinking about what they don't like about themselves. It doesn't make it hurt any less,... but I find that is typically the case.

I don't know because I'm not that big and people still make fun of me and it makes me feel bad because then I don't want to eat for a while.

Some guys are just immature please don't let them harm your confidence.

Being a bigger girl, I know exactly what you are talking about. Everyone has always told me that it is because they are uncomfortable with their insecurities. (ex. Small penis haha) so they make fun of people that obviously are different to make themselves feel better because chances are, if and when they make fun of us they are around their friends, and their friends will laugh and think they are funny so it makes them feel better. It's stupid though. It's immature and so very disrespectful. But in the end those guys will be the ones who live their whole life miserable and lonely and will never get to experience true love and a happy home.

To make themselves feel better. I hate and I mean hate people who make fun of others. They are lacking something. These are the people that in 15 years you see on jerry springer talking about sleeping with his uncles sisters cousins neighbor for a 12 pack of beer and he actually weighs 400 pounds and lives in a shack with 6 dogs. Ignore this ignorant freak. He is pathetic.

Personally, I think that there are guys who like larger women, but because our society dictates to us what is attractive, they will not acknowledge that they prefer heavy women, or outright make fun of it. When I was in grade school and middle school, I was chubby, and boys made fun of me, but even then I knew they just liked me. Maybe it's like when a closeted gay guy makes such a fuss over homosexuals: he doesn't want people to know how he really feels. But, I really think that we are surrounded by images of what we should want for ourselves: the skinny girlfriend, the sports car, etc. etc. It's the same for women: we're all supposed to want to be a wife and mother, because we have been taught our entire lives that that is what every female wants. Don't worry about these guys. Be comfortable with yourself, and you will find a guy that likes you for you.

Because those guys are jerks...plus people don't think twice about why that person is heavy...maybe that person has some kind of sickness - my friend she had a kidney transplant and she also had this sickness, which I forgot the name of but she gained water in her body - so in other words she had water weight and she looked like she was a balloon that just got pumped - she went from 120 to 200 pounds and when a guy made fun of her she couldn't even punch the guy cause it hurt her to move - all she wanted to do is lock herself inside her house from this cruel cold world. People should think - I mean guys are worse then girls plus a guys dream girl is a fantasy on porn which is fake all over...plus guys are guys what can you do about their attitude towards women - there are men who appreciate women with a lot more curvier physique but those guys are one in a million - most of them want an anorexic chic - no offense to those girls!!! But still most of those guys to me are jerks who don't appreciate even their girlfriends!!!