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You break eye contact and look away, and never look back |
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You wink and give her a high five gesture. |
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You introduce yourself, anyway |
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You ask her for an autograph because you say to her that she looks like a well known folk singer |
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I have a better idea, or a better lie. Please explain. |
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Best Answer
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You have to come up with something inventive.
I would first judge her body language. If she looks like she thinks your going to hit on her, lower her defense by saying something like this immediately
"Woww you are really unfriendly" Then turn back to face the line or turn on the direction you should be facing. She will probably try and clear up that she was "not trying to be unfriendly" Although you should still play it like your a little offended. Then have her convince you she is nice. Then introduce yourself. Then you have your introduction.
If she just looks rather out of it or unsociable, Then you should say something out of concern like "Hey are you alright?" or "Are you having a bad day?" Your concern will help her open up if she is not very sociable and in turn let her know your a nice guy.
Also if first scenario does not work, She is probably just a bitch. So don't waste your time. Usually if you go out of your way to be nice, like a smile, and someone shuns it you may dismiss it as a accident but not after you call someone out on it... If you casually do call someone out on it in a way that your offended (not mad) and they do not correct it they are probably an a**hole/bitch and know that they are. Don't waste the time.
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What Girls Said
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926
Then you could just say Hi if you must do something? A frown probably means do nothing, you don't know why they are in a bad mood!
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Um, nothing is your only option. You can keep glancing at her to see if she changes her mind, but that is a pretty glaring red light. Let it go and there will eventually be one who smiles back.
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Let it go.people don't have to smile at you.big deal
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What Guys Said
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14867
you probably should approach her with a question and then try to keep the conversation, but if that doesn't work, this woman just doesn't want to talk.
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I never lead with a pointless smile. Looking like a sales man is your first mistake. Sorry... Sorry not interest. No thank you. =P Do you think so wants someone that's super eager just to be in her presence? =S
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b, b is the answer.
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You see attractive people everyday, don't go smiling at everyone because they might misunderstand your friendliness with some kind of creepiness
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If she looks directly at me and gives me no response or frowns then I wouldn't do anything. Depending on the situation or my mood at the time I might try something else but that would depend on those things.
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I'd take the wuss's way out and not talk to her. But maybe that's a good thing considering that if she wasn't receptive to a smile, chances are she won't be receptive to a conversation unless I can think of an interesting way to start one.
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If you're brought together with an attractive stranger, and she doesn't respond to a smile, what do you do?
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It really depends how you portray what you are saying. This makes the world of difference. If you say it in a way that is threatening or pleading then it would not work. You should say it in a dismissing manor. A person would be inclined to appologize or explain themselves. Basic social dynamics. Your displaying that you don't act like that nor do you assosiate with people who act like that.