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I was sitting at a bar alone just eating food and drinking female bartender rubbed my back?

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steveguitar (Age:25 to 29)     When: 6 months ago
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the female bartender rubbed my back as she walked by. Why would she do this? we never talk about anything, I just order food and drink beer. She doesn't seem to be interested in me, though she is always busy Because she is at work. I have been to this bar alone quite a few times now, but have never spoken to each other, just ordering food. So why would she rub my back?


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  • xzinax2
    19859  
    6 months ago
    so...the old cashier lady in my supermarket is romantically interested in me because she touched my back? it doesn't mean anything. people do that all the time.

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  • MWalsh89
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    6 months ago
    She sees you a regular and sometimes with regulars, whether you talk or not, you sort of obtain a comfortable familiarity, learn to like them. It's very possible it was a way of saying "hi", letting you know she noticed you.

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  • Valintina
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    6 months ago
    Women, in my opinion, use flirty eye contact and facial expressions first before any touching to show interest. Women are usually affectionate like that in a platonic sense, and it could be if you are a regular customer she is showing a friendly appreciation or may have thought you looked sad or worried at the time.

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  • XNicholex3
    5329  
    6 months ago
    I think she must have thought you looked pretty down, she probably just wanted to comfort you and cheer you up.

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  • Olivia9
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    6 months ago
    It's a comforting thing, like hey buddy, hang in there, type type thing. Its a nice gesture not a sexual one.

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    • 6 months ago
      Leaning in to the guy while talking is the first indication.
    • 6 months ago
      what is a typical "sexual gesture"? if you don't mind me asking
 

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