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I have anger towards a professor? advice

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 6 months ago
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I went to a university this summer for graduate school. This professor was disrespectful towards me and even lied and manipulated things she said to me. I never had an issue with a teacher before this extreme. I was later dismissed from the program at the end of the summer. I believe because of this professor who was immature. She was adjunct and did not have a PHD. I think I was dismissed because I was making complaints on the department and they did not like that. I hold anger towards the professor because I was treated poorly by her and the department. Even though, I am in another program at another university doing better. I still hold anger the way I was treated. I have emails where this professor tried to make me do more work than other students.advice? I have made complaints on the professor outside of the university. Please advise me something helpful for this situation?


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  • martyfellow
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    6 months ago
    Consider whether you as a student have any real chance of making an impact on the department at this university. You are making a reputation as a trouble-maker, ad not accomplishing anything positive by it.


    Some battles are not worth fighting, no matter how unfair it may seem.

    Remember academia is a closed world where cliques always rule, and if you are on the outs with one of those cliques, you really should just move on and put the history behind you. Don't let this poison your future.

    Demand justice only where you will get a real hearing, not when you're complaining about someone to their friends! How can you expect their friends to take your side?

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    • Answerer
      6 months ago
      GEnerally a department will stick together against an outsider!
    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      how am I making a reputation as a troublemaker when this professor harassed me and stated racial remarks.
      Right is right? friends? do not always stick together when it comes to jobs/money. I am pretty sure they are pissed because they have to cover their asses too.lol
 

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  • CatholicVirginia
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    6 months ago
    You could talk to the dean or complain, ONLY IF YOU WANT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE FOR OTHERS, but honestly, let it go. Who is this anger helping? It's one thing to try to help the others in that program currently, if you honestly, objectively feel you were wronged. But also work on letting your anger toward her go.

    E-mails about her asking you to do more work mean nothing, by the way. It would show that she took a greater interest in you and tried to help you. She didn't negatively discriminate.

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    • Question Asker
      5 months ago
      No matter what? are you sure about that? I hate when people think they know everything because accusations against anyone are not always investigated. Have a nice life
    • Answerer
      5 months ago
      Okay... let's spell this out. Your attitude here. The woman would be investigated when accusations were made against her no matter what - the POINT of an investigation is to figure out if they are guilty. The investigation itself does not pass judgment. Now I am really done with you and your attitude. Best wishes in the future. I truly hope that justice is done, whether it's by your book or no.
    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      My attitude? You never even met me. I disagree with some of things you said and I have an attitude? If this was the case this woman would not be investigated. Obviously, someone had to make previous complaints on her or I do have enough proof. Believe me the state have plenty of cases and do not waste time on cases like mine if I did not have proof or if some claims were previously made on this professor.
    • Answerer
      6 months ago
      I have no idea the "proof" you have. All I have to work with is your attitude. As I said, if you're doing it for the good of the students who currently have her - MORE POWER TO YOU. But let the hatred go. It only destroys you.
    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      Those emails taking best interest in a student who she insulted several times. Your argument is weak. I have too much proof for someone to believe anything such. Like I said. And you cut it out. Its not children in this website. This professor is being investigated by the state. I guess you really think people are going to feel sorry for her...lol
    • Answerer
      6 months ago
      Just make sure that you are doing this for the right reasons. Fueling a grudge will do NOTHING for either of you. It can only hurt you.
    • Answerer
      6 months ago
      Oh cut it out. You're so petulant right now. You are out of the program; let it go. This anger means nothing. And as I said, those E-mails could just be her taking a special interest in you. "I see so much potential in her interest in allergy medications that, yes, I asked her to do an essay on them when no one else had to. I am trying to help guide her."

      Based on your attitude, I'm not even sure that that's not what she was doing and you just refuse to give credit.
    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      Excuse me? Emails making me do more work than others when assignments were assigned already. You bet it mean something when I have witnesses.
 
   
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