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This guy says I'm a serious and guarded person?

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Anonymous User (Age:36 to 45)     When: 5 months ago
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Im not dating him at all, but I do work with him. I don't know why he decided to tell me this but now I would like some advice if you please on what exactly he means and how can I become unguarded? I do laugh a lot and love to have fun but nonetheless he's says I'm serious too? thanks


Update: It seems some answers say that he is after me, but I really don't see the correlation between wanting me and just telling me I was a guarded person. can anyone elaborate?    4 months ago

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  • Ron601
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    4 months ago
    loosen up then.

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  • justmesaying
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    4 months ago
    LOL! Just tell him 'If I'm worth having as a friend you will find a way to make me drop my guard and loosen up."

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  • coolguy1989
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    4 months ago
    Men typically mean what they say...so you should just take it as face value. He's pointing out something he sees in you...if he likes you, you'll know, trust me!

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    4 months ago
    it is his way of saying lets start to flirt I would say .why not ask him what he ment by that remark. get it from the hourse"s mouth.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      ha ha he's been flirting with me for quite awhile, so can't ask him that questioin. but thank you!
  • artfullyliving
    2820  
    4 months ago
    So you should be to a man you work with so just say, yes, that's correct and go about whatever it is you do and keep it work like at the work place. If he can't be like a worker then you can ask him to transfer to another place or ask the supervisor to say something to him so you don't lose your job over the guy.

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What Girls Said

  • toricakes
    3560  
    4 months ago
    He wants to get into your pants
    You aren't showing any signs so he's trying to put this in your head

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  • ixi10
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    5 months ago
    It just means you are shy and quiet

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