marbury031

Was she trying to talk to me?
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marbury031 (Age:25 to 29)     When: 4 months ago
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Theres this girl who goes to my school who I think likes me because she glances quick at me and looks away quick and gives me so many other clues but I never spoke to this girl. Well I was in the cafeteria in school and she was a couple of tables away from me and it was just me and her in the cafeteria. one of my friends who is a girl comes walking in and knows the girl that I think likes me so she has hi to her. then she comes to me and ask me why I wasn't in this Asian ladys class the other night so I asked her what Asian lady and as my friend is saying she doesn't know the girl from a couple of table down chimes in and says OH MISS SWAN! and I'm confused was she trying to talk to me or was she trying to get my attention? please help me out to understand
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  • Midnightsapphire
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    Midnightsapphire
    3 months ago
    Not at all trying to be mean saying this... Why are you asking about this again? You both obviously like each other, but both have issues about approaching each other. Invite her to sit with you at lunch. Get to know her. Have the mutual friend there if it makes you more comfortable.

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    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      i didn't ask about it again my first question I didn't know it posted and it actually posted 3x. my computer kept acting up
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    4 months ago
    Talk to her
    She's into you

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  • Sienna26
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    Sienna26
    4 months ago
    She likes you! Try to start talking to her!

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    4 months ago
    She's interested. Talk to her. Give her the time of day

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    4 months ago
    She's trying to hint that she likes you.

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  • diane224
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    diane224
    4 months ago
    I'd say she has a crush on you :) Problem is that she doesn't really know you - so she is crushing on a 'fantasy'-you not the real you... But if you like her you should give it a shot :)

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    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      you like some guy too? @luvergiirl
    • Luvergiirl
      3 months ago
      I agree with you..I'm in a situation simular to this:-)
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    4 months ago
    weird and confusing story the way you wrote it ha ha but anyways I think yea she was just trying to make conversation especially in school when you can talk about academics and classes and teachers, its what everyone has in common so its the best way to talk to guys. she was trying to talk to u. maybe she kinda likes you or is just being friendly. just don't over think it and assume stuff like she was out to get your attention, just relax and be friendly. it takes so much courage for a girl to talk to a guy she can be nervous and scared so the fact that she is trying to talk to u, just make her feel welcome to talk to you and make her feel included.

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  • ashleybeans
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    ashleybeans
    4 months ago
    Well she may of just used that as an excuse to talk to you. Like if there's a cute girl you have your eye on and she's asking her friends "How do I text somebody?" or something random you may think to yourself "Hmm I know the answer, PLUS I want to talk to this chick so here's my chance.." she was just basically taking her opportunity or being a nice person and tryign to help you out.

    Even if a girl doesn't know you if she likes you or finds you attractive she may stare at you or find ways to get to know you.

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  • applesrule123
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    applesrule123
    4 months ago
    i don't know it doesn't even seem llike she was trying to even talk to you but it does seem like she likes you

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      how doesn't it seem like she was trying to talk to me? she answered the question I asked my friend she literally jumped into the convo
 

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  • Aercz
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    4 months ago
    She was trying to talk to you. She definitely likes you.
    If you want to be with her, why not take a move now before you'll lose her?

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      thanks for the advice man! god bless
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Just ask her.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      your right I do over analyzing things. because I thought made she was talking to the girl I was talking to and not me but everyone says that she was talking to me. and it hold me back to talk to her because she has a boyfriend that I see on her Facebook. but she gives me so many clues
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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      I think he's just her best friend or like close friend. I think you have a chance.
      Set aside your doubt and start pursuing. Nothing will come out if you're just there over analyzing things. If you really want to know, why not ask her?
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      yea she has a boyfriend but I don't know how serious they are! but I'm not sure. and no I never met her in my life I seen her in my school that was it
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Does she really have a boyfriend?
      Or perhaps, you're someone she knows back in her childhood years and probably you've forgotten about her. Things like that happen.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      yea but I think she has a boyfriend which is the confusing part because she did so many things to get attention from me. like she will stare at me from affar then when we get close she stares at the wall to avoid eye contact I don't know if she's nervous. what do you think?
  
   
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