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What do you think this guy is playing at?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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Basically, I met this guy. We got talking and got on really well. He asked me on a date the next day (met at a club) which I agreed to. The next day he cancels, because he had a hangover but asked to reschedule. I thought that was fair enough so we aimed to meet up a few days later. Anyway, that day of the date came and several hours before hand he asked to reschedule again because his friends "were making him go out" that night. I told him I couldn't make that day because of a deadline. He hasn't spoken to me since.

What do you think he is playing at? Why keep rescheduling if he's not interested, and why keep cancelling if he is? Should I contact him again or leave it?
I wasn't that crazy on meeting up as I don't know him that well, but we did get on so well that I thought it would be nice to see. What do you think is happening here?


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  • -0x0-
    3226  
    3 months ago
    maybe he's being polite. Doesn't want to outright say he's not interested in you as it might make you upset but he is hoping you give up and forget about him on your own.
    Or maybe he just plain does keep having stuff forcing him to delay

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    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      Yeah, I thought that to be honest. But he suggested meeting up the first time, re-arranging the second time and tried to re-arrange a third time. It wasn't really my idea. But I agree, if he was interested enough he would make time
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    3 months ago
    He's not *that* keen on you. If you're up for rescheduling, great. If you're just going to call the whole thing off. eh, he's not going to be that bothered.

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    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      Good call :) Not sure it's really worth trying to make happen to be honest, seems like more effort than it should be
  • dDizzie
    6296  
    3 months ago
    You met a guy at the club. This is what happens.

    Also canceling for a hangover is NOT a fair enough excuse!

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  • bdoran24
    4981  
    3 months ago
    Fine another guy, you don't reschedule the first date.

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  • Moloch
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    3 months ago
    You're trying to get with a party type guy, that's how they are, lol. Bros before hoes.

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  • Special11
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    3 months ago
    He wanted to go out with his friends instead, text him, he was probably wasted,or he is not interested. Text him, won't hurt anything, don't overdue it.

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  • 3boys4me
    2199  
    3 months ago
    WOW he sounds super lame girl I would just forget about him! He just isn't that into you. If he was he would move heaven and earth to keep his plans w you. Forget him

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