At the end of my last relationship. My ex screamed at me
"We don't even have sex anymore! "
I thought this was a very strange thing coming from her at the time because by this point in the relationship I was starving for her attention. I was the only one attempting to hug, kiss, or even trying to cuddle.
So when she wasn't providing me with those things why would she be pissed about not having sex?
Maybe your efforts were lacking. I think a lot of women expect the man to initiate sex, since men generally have a higher sex drive. So, when they don't they probably just think their boyfriend lost interest in them.
She was not having sex with you to see if you could go away. So when You were trying ot get back with her she was like WTF we don't even have sex anymore how could you think there is anything left in our relationship! You get it. It has nothing to do with your sexual performance in bed, or your approach. She was probably trying to move on but did not want to be the one to break it off! When a womans in love, and with a man for that long usually your approach is just right-as long as she is still in love. Sorry :( But you will find someone else I am sure!
She didn't provide. Providing you? Sometimes arousing her first might be nice. Takes two to Tango. Prolly why she was maybe to bored of your same approach. Cuddle. She just wanted more aggression. So she ignored the "cuddling your way in" hahah
Maybe you two didn't communicate very well with on another. She may have just wanted to get right to it, but she should have tried to put some effort into it. Or at least met half way.
I think I have found a question I can't answer. I thought it would never happen. But, I will try. Maybe she just isn't a cuddler. Maybe she wanted you to just have sex. Some girls like just having the sexual part not the cuddle hug part.
I don't know I was dating her for 6. 5 years that last few years she seemed to push me out of her life more and more. I think it was because she was planning on moving out of state with her family. - 7 months ago
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Could be. Long time to date and not ask for marriage. Maybe she was bored. I dated 7 years and it got to be boring. - 7 months ago
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