So its me again with a new girl lol,. Well I was just wondering if words can really kill a relationship! I just met this girl on Sunday,. I took her out to eat then we stayed at her house for a while,. I left at like 6am. I was feeling pretty good about everything. Its been 4 days,. I stayed at her house again Wednesday into Thursday, valentines day! When we woke up ummm she said she wanted to tell me something but she was afraid because I might get mad,. I asked her about what,. She said me. So after about 15 minutes fighting her to tell me she finally did. She said my first impression of you was that you were bi-sexual. I was like that's all, well at least that was just your first impression because I'm in no way shape or form bi. She was like I still feel that way,. Then this is when I was upset,. I felt so strange,. She couldn't even give me a reason,. So I was like huh,. Just popped in my head phones and was ready to leave. I took her to school then now I'm home,. Oh she gave me a kiss,. But I really dint want it after those words came out of her mouth! So I'm trying to decide if I should just leave her alone,. Because right now I'm so about to step on the definitely single side. I was happy now I'm just like damn WTF.
Man! No reason even? I don't know if I could stay with someone if they thought I was Bi. But, do you like her? Is that the only bad thing? Maybe she just needs to be convinced. Well, Try to talk to her and see how it goes. Happy Valentines Day!
That's weird. The comment alone is meaningless since you know what you are and aren't attracted to, but words do string thoughts together in the mind and I wouldn't be able to get past the image of the inside of her brain producing such weird world-views. What else is she wacko about, dig?
I had a girl tell me she thought I was gay. Then later after finding out I wasn't was trying to date me. I felt the same way, and declined the relationship. Not sure if it's just a guy thing, but I think it's important that I am perceived by a woman I'm interested in as being straight and desirable.
It's not the end of the world, but if you were fine with her before the fact, maybe try asking something like "Ok, you think I'm bi. What does that mean for you? " Maybe she was just trying to be honest and share her thoughts with you, but is fine with the fact you care about her and won't give it a second thought.
Full disclosure of thoughts between two people is one of the highest forms of non-sexual intimacy.
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