There is this guy at my school that started to talk to me out on nowhere. He is always trying to talk to me specially when I am alone. He looks like the people that are in jail, he has a lot of tattoos. Then I found out that he is married and has 29 year, I am ten years younger. Then yesterday I was sitting in a computer and I did not looked at him coming and he grabbed my waist he scared me a lot. He is constantly telling me that I am pretty and if I would go out with him. Should I be really worried and be taking care of my self and what can I do or say to him to leave me alone that I don't want to talk to him because I do not feel comfortable when I am around him. It feels like if he is a stalker, but maybe he isn't but I want to prevent anything bad that can happen.
If he's married, that should be a clue to stay away. He'd just be using you for a booty call. Trust your instincts too.
If he is randomly coming up and grabbing you, that's one step closer to something else you wouldn't want. You need to let him know that it's not ok and he should respect you and his wife enough to leave you alone.
Get some mace and tell someone at your school. Then just nicely tell him that he is making you feel uncomfortable when he touches you. I would for the next month or so try to stay in a group setting or with a friend. Having someone around will let him know you don't like it when he approaches you, You really need to let someone know at school like security or someone. I know its hard to have friends around all the time, but avoid places that hardly anyone is around.
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When: 9 months ago
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