Hi when a guy gives a woman an orgasm why do they always afterwards wanna snuggle up with you and then they tell you that they love you and are crying and all this and that but then 10 mins go by and then they wanna role over and give you the cold shoulder and become a bitch later that night?
women who orgasm release a chemical called Oxytoxcin. This chemical si what makes a woman bond to her child during breast feeding,--it is called the "cuddle hormone". Men release this chemical as well, just not as much.
When the sex is very intense it can make the chemical even stronger.
Maybe her reaction could be to something you do or say during this phase--if you give her what she maybe she won't feel this way.
It could be deeper too--women feel very vulnerable after sex, especially if they show their emotions--maybe she is afraid of how she feels and is pushing you away.?
Because men and women have a different chemical balance, usually it's the opposite, it's the guy rolling over but she could just not want you to think she's real clingy.
Stiny-In-Love
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
I think you need to learn that sex means more to a woman than a man most of the times. Maybe the woman has more feelings for you than you have for her. If this is true you should tell her. Sometimes the hardest thing for a woman to do is try to stop loving someone but if you don't see her as a serious partner and she does then you should tell her exactly how you feel. If you do love her though, tell her!Don't let her walk away from something true because she thinks you aren't serious.
I guess that women just want to feel closer after sex and a man just wants to roll over and go to sleep?? This is a indication that emotion is a part of the female personality and what's wrong with snuggling or cuddling after sex between both partners?
UltraDramatic
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
Maybe it's because she wants to feel closer to you, which is why she snuggles you.
Maybe she's tired, which is why she rolls over and goes to sleep.
Maybe she's hoping you'll be as enthusiastic to cuddle up with her after she's reached orgasm (hell, man, you should be more than willing to do this -- she just let you into her most intimate places, and you can't hold her for a few minutes??).
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