I've asked this same thing for the girls, now it's time for the guys. What do girls do that drives guys mad? Please answer the poll, and then explain in the answer.
I've seen this question being asked of the girls about guys, so I thought that turnabout is fair play. I honestly want to know, although I don't really agree with these options. They just seemed the most common complaints I've heard from guys.
You know what bugs me the most about guys that sometimes y'all are not man enough to tell us how you really feel about us and at the end we were both feeling the same but the guy just didn't want to let it out for some reason that gets me really mad. This my opinion I don`t know what you think.
That same admittance can go both ways. I think that the guy should be 'man enough' to confess his feelings, but surely you can be 'woman enough' too? I don't know - there's no real way to decide who should be the one to 'fess up. It depends on the situation, I suppose. Any who, this question was for what girls do that bugs guys. I have the same question of what guys do that bugs girls if you go to my profile (click my name) and you can answer there too. Thanks anyway, and I kinda agree with this answer. - 5 months ago
The only problem is many of us guys can't read women code, and can't pick up on the subtle hints. I used to be all gung-ho trying to over-analyze every single gesture or signal that a woman might make and then try to interpret if it meant anything. 90% of the time I thought I read it right; I was wrong. That's the problem, most of us don't understand you ladies signals for attraction, especially if you are a really flirty woman and act that way with everybody else too. We don't see any - 5 months ago
Real just cause to put ourselves and our egos out on the line for something we aren't even quite sure of. And every guy has, or will, learn the hard way that we NEVER EVER let a girl know how much we really like them until we are 100% sure that she likes us back. For if we act too early, we might end up in the 7th circle of hell known as the Friend Zone. See our dilemma here. :/ - 5 months ago
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 6 months ago
I wish more guys would've answered this question, as I would love to know as well.
This is definitely the most common answer. It's telling a lie at it's core, isn't it? The only problem is that girls will then tend to expect you to figure that out on these occasions, as well as what they're really wanting to say. - 27 days ago
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Exactly, guys are simple and stupid (sorry boys), and girls are very complicated and crazy (sorry ladies). - 26 days ago
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(Age:30 to 35)
When: 2 months ago
Cat and mouse games piss me off. I'm like, If you don't know what you want, figure it out. If you do, don't play games. Be straight forward with what you want from me and I can give it to you, but if you don't, I'm not a mind reader. If you like me, come out and tell me. If you're not interested, tell me, but don't play games with me and expect me to know what you want or what you are saying. I don't want to have to read between the lines all the time. It gets old. I'm straight forward & I want a girl to be straight forward too. It's part of being honest and mature and having good communication skills instead of playing 3rd grader games and not being mature enough to have a relationship with someone. Sorry, just venting my own frustrations with a certain female in my own life!
Rant noted and accepted. It was a good one too. Feel better? Lol.
Basically, you don't like the little annoying hints, I take it? Agreed. I wonder how many girls think guys drop hints as much as they do... I'm gonna ask that Q. - 2 months ago
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Yeah, I feel better! lol What's interesting about what you said in response to my venting is that I have actually found myself playing the same stupid little games at times in response to her - So, having said that, I think I get more angry at myself for falling for the same thing than anything! :) - 2 months ago
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I did ask that question under behaviour, but you can find it on my profile. It's an overwhelming 'yes' in answer.
Yeah, I hate those annoying hints just as much as all the other guys that have said the same thing, but I find it hilarious that guys do it too. I know I do, esp when I want to tell a girl I like her, but don't want to just come right out and say it. I hate that part. - 2 months ago
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Cool - thanks! - 2 months ago
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 3 months ago
They don't know what they want. No matter what, you could be caring, funny, smart, handsome, sensitive, and charming yet they still won't be satisfied with you.
Is it possible that that's not what that girl wants? I suppose that some girls won't be satisfied whatever they get. I'm sure that that would be highly irritating. Guys want certainty, and some girls don't seem to like giving that. It's the whole annoying hint dropping thing on speed. - 3 months ago
The 2 things that ALWAYS bug me about some types of women is the flaky say one thing and do another behavior or the BS last minute excuses because she is feeling differently about you a couple hours later. It's like some girls have no clue what they want, so they change their minds constantly and faster than we have anytime to realize wtf just happened.
That is frustrating. It's basic mood swings, amongst other things. It leaves your head spinning, and you kind of have to wonder at times if they get a kick out of it. At least, that's some of the girls I've met. They can be sadistic. - 5 months ago
Many girls would like it if you'd talk to them about your feelings. They'd absolutely LOVE it, in fact. When they're feeling upset, they want someone to vent to, and seeing as they want you to do the same with them, they believe that we want the same from them - and then they vent. It isn't nice when they vent at you and not about the real cause as guys automatically go into 'fix it' mode when their girlfriend is upset. We mite not like talking about feelings, but we hate it worse when we helpless. - 5 months ago
I totally agree - I don't like to talk about things unless I want advice, so I don't like having chicks vent on me unless they want to get to the real issues of the situation. - 2 months ago
I suppose that's a matter of the girls you've met. Strangely enough, that's a common complaint that I've heard from girls about some guys - it's always the guys that are 'ignorant' or 'insensitive' rather than the girls. Sounds really strange to be coming from a guy. - 5 months ago
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Guys have a problem with being insensitive (I agree), but so many girls have a problem with being clueless. - 5 months ago
Well whenever I'm nervous I act kind of dumb and ditzy . so that's usually how it is when I hangout with a guy I like . hmmm - 5 months ago
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So being ditzy is a sign ? Hmm, interesting, very interesting . - 5 months ago
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
1. Say there's nothing wrong when there obviously is 2. Invite along some crummy friend when you just want some time with them alone 3. Make an argument out of nothing 4. Make a fuss about their clothes, hair, etc when there's a tiny bit of wind or rain 5. Stop at roundabouts when there's no other car visible for a mile in any direction 6. Are totally useless when it comes to giving directions/reading a map 7. Remember useless stuff like hairbands when they are shopping, but never remember stuff that you actually need, like food, beer, etc 8. Like crap music 9. After a really heavy day, they always want to go clubbing when all you want is a quiet bar and a couple of close friends for company 10. Take control of the TV remote
That's, er, quite a few things. I agree with some of them, like the first one and the third one, but not all, like 7, which I've never seen personally or 8, which is a total matter of preference. Thanks for the answer. - 5 months ago
Do you even like girls? Lol. Sounds like you have a lot of complaints and could keep going! We are not all like that! Maybe you are just going after the wrong kind of girl. Did you ever think of that! - 5 months ago
1. When I say there's nothing wrong it means that there might b but don't worry about it-its something so small & ridiculous that I can work through it myself 2. Just tell us when you want "special" time 2gether. I bring a friend sometimes because I'm too nervous 2 be alone with a new guy, & my friends always help me feel more confident 4. Only because we want to look our best are guy 6. Its called mapquest 7. Tell your girl to make a list 9. Chill out. She's probably bored 10. Because espn gets boring 24-7 - 5 months ago
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To princessjess99: What?!?! To sophi0090: 1) Most girls, when they do this, WANT you to pry further so that it sets you up for a head-biting-off experience. It's not exactly a fun experience, and if you don't go for it, it's about a thousand times worse. The rest I completely agree with you. Good comment! - 5 months ago
I agree w/sophi0090 on most of this, but this is my take... 1) a lot of the times we want you to ask us another time just so we know you really care 2) I do this usually when I firstr meet a guy because I get nervous also and can't think of anything not-stupid to say or do... my girls are there to help me just be myself 4) we make a fuss about how we look because we want to look good for you. DUH 5)wtf??! that just seems like a rant thrown in out of spite 7) why don't you remember your own damn beer?! - 14 days ago
When girls dress really skanky and easy-like just to get your attention, but then make you buy them a drink first and jump through a couple hoops before they actually put out.
The first two really annoy me but "A" annoys me the most. Why should men all of a sudden be able to read women's minds once the get into a relationship? I don't think that I'll ever understand why
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 6 months ago
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