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Should I apologize, clarify, or do nothing?

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quikstudy (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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I was in a store quickly trying to get out the checkout line. I didn't even bother to look up to the cashier until she made a comment about all the books, but when I looked up I thought she was beautiful. She had a classic beauty you don't really see anymore, you know.

I left the store and then kicked myself being too shy to not ask for her number. In fact I drove back to the store, but she was gone by that time.

Exactly a week later I saw her, she remembered me and gave her my number and told her to call me sometime, saying we could get a cup of coffee on her break or something.

She texted me the next day and we texted for about a day or two till I added her on a social networking site and saw she was seeing someone.

I'm a little embarrassed because I feel like I was intruding in on her relationship.

So my question is should I apologize, clarify, or do nothing. I as a woman how would you react to this?


Update: If this was unclear, I gave her my number, not the other way around. Thanks obligations.    9 months ago

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KatyGR
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KatyGR      When: 9 months ago
I don't think you should do anything. Continue to contact her if you can just be buddies, but tread carefully. She's taken.

You did nothing wrong. You were not intruding on her relationship; indeed, she didn't mention it even in passing (I assume) which is a little odd. You have nothing to apologize for, or even to clarify. There's no way you could have known she was involved with someone, so you were not intruding.
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993099142      When: 9 months ago
I think she is the one who should apologize... she knew you were looking for a relationship and she gave you her number when she was taken. You shoudln't feel guility.
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im_erika
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im_erika      When: 9 months ago
well everything starts with friendship
and there's nothing really wrong with that
she probably saw you as someone she can hangout with
dont pry
just conitnue hanging out
and she will tell you everything you needed to know
good luck =]
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obligations      When: 9 months ago
Ask her why she gave you her number if she was taken?
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Question Asker I gave her my number, not the other way around. - 9 months ago
Answerer Same thing whyd id she call if she's taken
- 9 months ago
Question Asker I don't know, maybe she thought I would have told the manager or something, lol. - 9 months ago
Answerer Then you should ask her why did she call - 9 months ago
 

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l-hedoniste
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l-hedoniste      When: 9 months ago
None of the above.

Ask her out. Ignore the boyfriend.
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