Alright, the whole thing is pretty complicated really, but here are some of the basics. I've been talking to a girl that I enjoy talking to for about a month, and I really like her. We've been friends way longer than a month since we've gone to the same small school for years, but in the past month we've been talking a lot more. We were supposed to hang out over this past weekend, but it ended up being too icy on the roads and all that and her parents wouldn't let her drive or be driven anywhere. Anyways, she said she would try for the next night but she couldn't go again because of previous plans going later than expected, which I understand. When I spoke to her when she was explaining what had happened she sounded very happy and actually sounded like she wanted to have gone both times, but my paranoid over thinking manner made me wonder if just maybe she could have went. Anyways, the main question is about what happened on the computer later that night. She got on to talk to me but was very very distant and only replied every 3-5 minutes which is not like her at all, and she was very cold in everything she said. Not only that, but she brought up that she had had a bad week and that her ex-bf had started talking to her again and that he had asked her to hang out over the weekend which had put her in a bad mood, which she seemed to be taking out on me at this time. My worry over this is that she's gone back to him twice before even though he was an obvious jerk to her, but she's pretty forgiving. Do you think I've got anything to worry about with her ex coming back to her yet again, or that she canceled on me two nights in a row? And this was pretty much the first time she had ever been this way towards me, no matter what was going on. I kinda think I'm worrying over nothing now, but since I typed this out, might as well get some answers on it. Thanks for the answers, and yes sorry for the length.
She still likes her ex and will probably get back with him despite being an ass. Some girls just like the abuse assholes dish out and get used to it. You may be a "rebound" too, which is never a good thing. Don't read into her 3-5 minute responses too much. And also don't read too much into her "distant" vibe either. She could have had someone else nearby she had to pay attention to....Mom, sister, friend, boyfriend. (just kidding about the last one). Pray for sunshine and ask her out again, but don't get your hopes up too high until you (and her) are sure she is truly over her ex.
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