Ok, so my ex and I broke up a month ago. Lots of reasons played in the decision which HE made. I have stood by him through lots of issues and he knows that I have. He told me all the time that he couldn't believe I still am with him and love him so much. Many times when we would get into arguments, he would always shut down and go to a cave and go on some trip by himself to think which I thought was weird because I was taught to talk about your feelings and he does not he completely shuts down. He always says that I'm always right and that he has not been nice to me and selfish. When he ended it he I told him that if I text or call or email to just ignore me because he had hurt me so bad I needed to just get over him. I know that we both love each other. I was of course drinking one night and text I miss you really bad. He texted back few hours later and said you told me to ignore your texts and I am trying to. We are both stubborn and I wish that we could work through this. What should I do just give him space and see where time takes it?
Either of you has to give in. In this case,you should. Text him saying that you're always there for him and you care for him. Msgs that will soothe his heart. See where it leads to. If he says he's not th right one for you,tell him that you're gonna prove to him that he is wrong. Tell him that you love him and you don't wanna argue anymore. You have to give in.
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