So Ill try to make this quick. We used to work together then he went to another job and asked me to apply where he works. After going to his new place of work, he would visit me every week at work, he calls or texts me random messages quoting different things, movies, comics, calling me names. Hell ask me how I'm doing, or what's going on. We have met up at the movies, dinner, gone to my work gatherings together. Funny thing is that when asked by mutual friends if we are a couple he says no, everyone at work seems to believe he and I are together because they have noticed when he visits me and calls or texts me so much and randomly. But yet, when I don't answer his calls or texts he asks if I'm upset with him. Then he does everything he can to make sure that I'm not upset with him and keep me happy. I believe any rational person would say he is interested, but yet he never makes a move, or asks me out on a real date, just wants to meet up, give it, we have never split a check or made the other pay for their part. This guy is confusing! Let me know what y'all think, Thanks!
Sounds like he likes you a lot! Any guy that goes to that much effort to see how you're doing and keep in contact likes you. Maybe the fact that you ignore some of his texts or phone calls makes him wonder if you like him as well. I think that guys are a lot easier to read. If a guy goes to that much trouble, he likes you. Some guys don't want to face rejection, or ruin a friendship, and he probably is feeling the exact way you are, wondering if you like him or not. So that's why he hasn't asked you out yet.
Maybe he won't call yourselves a "couple" until it is a serious relationship? I think he really likes you and just want to make sure it can be serious before he'll say you're officially together :) (and then you'll know he mean it).
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 9 months ago
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